know how to convert a pure soul into a matured social person

Growth comes from your deep within..nobody can help you out unless you want to change yourself. I tried hard to teach him how to get acquainted with social obligations while earning your own bread.But that person did not buzz.He is still living in his own dreamland and is satisfied with his little computer world..(Where he watches unlimited downloaded animation movies..)I am tired..everything seems hopeless, so I am giving up this goal.

meeting him after a long time..I was expecting some change in his behaviour..some miracle but miracle never happens in real life,he is same confused person..no mission..no purpose in life.I asked him about his carrer plans..he has nothing..sole purpose is how to waste more time in day dreaming. He is not ready to take any job. His reason is that he is not that perfact for any assignment..we asked him how will he gain cofidence and experience until he jumps into practical field,how will he know about the practical aspect. He ignores these questions and tries best to ignore our company as well.I wonder if he needs a psychiatric? I am really worried.

When I look at him I feel pity on him coz he is a pure,innocent kid. He is grownup and now he has to prove himself in social life..like he has completed his graphic animation course from a renowned institution. Now this is high time to search a job. He feels shy and unprepared..He feels scary,underconfident..He wants to remain in his world..We know this is not possible..how long one can support financially or socialy. Is it natural How does other take it? How can I help him..?