Recently some friend asked me again whether I’ve got a boy, That annoyed me much. So I thought a lot about my real feeling. And I have got an idea. I will follow the natural development, I will not be reluctant to get married. So before that I want to enjoy being single.
Am I right? 5 years ago

More girls with the same age as me are getting married.And my parents and relatives are very urgent about me, they felt I am getting old. Hehe,because I always said to them that the people could live in different lifestyles nowerdays as long as you live happily and bother others less…You can choose live alone,keep single,and get married if you would like to. Marriage doesn’t fit me.They are getting angry with my sentences, and they thought I am so weird against the common Chinese traditions. They said they never heard a girl said like that, and I am getting crazy.
In fact I am not against marriage so much, I just felt it it unnecessary to get married.It is not an obligation.
Some days I would feel a little lonely,and at time time, I would hesitate: shall I marry sb.? now I know some truth, the lonely feeling doesn’t really depend on whether you are single or married, it is about your inner part.
However I have to consider this question, I have to consider about the future happiness, choose a suitable road to go along with, and I won’t regret much one day if I go long with a mature decision. 5 years ago