I’m naturally not a nice person. I can be selfish, self-centered and a bit of a Debbie Downer. I come off a bit pretentious and snobby in most social settings where I feel incompetent. This bitterness roots from self-doubt and from several insecurities. Being bitchy has been a self-defense mechanism I’ve used for quite sometime now and it has finally backfired on me. I’ve slowly pushed several people out of my life and now I feel more alone than ever. Will sun come out tomorrow? I don’t know… I don’t care enough. HELP! 20 months ago
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I hate myself i talk back to my mom and argue about the stupidest things i hit people when they say something i dont agree with and i just cant stop how do i stop being such a total and complete bitch 21 months ago
Im rather proud of myself today… Relationships are made for two, but some bitches just don’t know how to count. And im usually that bitch. And as much as I listen to her unhappiness with her girlfriend I give her advice that will better their relationship. But that’s not why I am proud of myself… She spent the night last night, in my bed, and I didn’t try anything. Normally, especially cause it was her, I would have attempted anything, at least cuddled… But there are now boundaries and I am actually respecting her and her relationship choices…. 23 months ago
How I did it: I dropped the negative people who were causing my bitchy side to emerge. Now, I don't feel the need to be a bitch to certain people who don't understand how to back off. Even in everyday situations when people are rude r have attitudes, I am passive and ignore them. It's not my nature to be rude or curse out the store manager anymore, lol. You catch more flies with honey.
Update: In my attempt to be nicer, I have found that people will try to take advantage of you and basically try to treat you like a punk (excuse my language). I've learned to find a balance . I was a bit naive about being passive and nice. However, through working in my internship and through experiences within the last year, I have learned how to find a balance between passive and aggressive. You still catch more flies with honey, but sometimes people will try to disrespect you and you have to stand up for yourself. Standing up for yourself doesn't mean being a bitch, but it does mean that you will let someone know quickly that you are not to be disrespected. Read how I did it… 5 years ago