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12 months ago
If only I knew how…
How to date several good, honest, kind, smart, interesting, affectionate, spiritual, lusty men who are in love with/attracted to/challenge the real me...and then commit to a deep, loving relationship with one
It made me 
"well worth keeping perspective and self respect"
How I did it: I dated casually, and kept my faith that I shouldn't lower my standards in terms of only willing to be with somebody inherently worthy of me - somebody with strong ethics and who would treat me right.
I'm so incredibly spoiled -I feel so completely cherrished. It's easy to commit when it's something worth committing to.
Lessons & tips: Focus on doing what it takes to make you comfortable and confident in being in your own skin. As soon as you are happy being by yourself and can be your own best friend, others worthy of your attention will take note of you and want to be with you.
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New realization:
12 months ago
I really need to get back on this goal for my own personal sanity. There ARE other people out there.
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He shows up this afternoon
13 months ago
God am I excited! I haven’t seen him in eight weeks, but he’s coming for visit for the long weekend… Cross your fingers for us that everything works out as well as we hope :)
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13 months ago
Honesty, loyalty and respect is very important to me. Being human first, romance will definitely follow.
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
I feel close
14 months ago
To this goal…
We’ll see what happens when he comes to visit me in a few weeks…
I have a feeling that we could become way more intense than we plan to really fast… with good basis, and I’ll find myself in a exclusive and committed for the immediately forseeable future sort of loving realtionship. He’s SOOOO sweet and kind, and loving, and gentle, and supportive, and amazing… and I am so honored to have him in my life :)
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
Just spent over 2.25 hours
14 months ago
on the phone with him… not a single awkward pause… lots of laughter, and mutual enjoyment. Now I feel all full of “awww”ness… :)
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
Actions speak louder than words
14 months ago
So… so much for not being interested in me or willing to persue a long distance relationship… we’ve been investing in really amazingly connected dialouges both through frequent and long winded phone calls and through e-mails… and now we’re figuring out the details of him coming out to visit me – a 12.5 hour trip that HE requested permission to plan :) So, yeah… as long as some unknown doesn’t crop up, this might just work out :)
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
I was so right about that
15 months ago
So, I’ve connected with someone special… but he’s been burned with long distance relationships in the past… So he’s told me to go live my own independent life, and that we’ll see each other at Christmas. That’s so less than satisfying though :(
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
it's hard *sigh*
16 months ago
I feel like school is making a difficult goal pretty much impossible at the moment… especially since I’m silly enough to go to college out of state. Even if I do connect with a man here at home, going away for nine months at a time will kill it :(
Dreamdancer12 Breathing Deep
"If the Buddha Dated"
16 months ago
What a wonderful book! It really resonated with me… picked it up at Barns and Nobles last night, and ended up reading far past my bed time… hehe
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