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2 weeks ago
I realized that I haven’t been even living for real.My life passes by day by day and year by year.My biggest dream is to live in Finland.
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How to I want to be happy
It made me
happy & at peace
 "I wrote a lot, and learned how to be myself and stop caring so much what other people thought; then I realized that I already have everything I need to be happy."
How I did it: Well, I started out happy, like every other little baby does, and then stuff happened to make me unhappy. So then I was in this class, and we wrote about personal experiences and worked through our feelings and it was so helpful. I learned how to accept myself for how I am, and let myself be happy with what I have, rather than continuously wanting more. Lessons & tips: 1. When you feel unhappy, don't push those feelings away. That just makes them last longer. Let yourself feel totally unhappy, cry it out, etc, and then afterwards you'll feel much better. 2. If someone does something that makes you unhappy, be honest with them. Pretending you're ok just makes you more unhappy. 3. Don't rely on other people to make you happy. In order to be happy, you have to say, "okay, I am happy with what I have. I don't need anything else." 4. BE YOURSELF. Don't try to be different in order to make other people like you. You'll be really unhappy even if you do get them to like you, because you won't be able to be yourself. Say what you really think, how you really feel, who you really are, and the right people will appreciate you for that. 5. Don't ever feel like there's something wrong with you. You're beautiful the way you are.
Resources: Some really good teachers Books Writing and talking things out
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How I did it: I guess one always knows the answers to there questions/problems...and so did I...but its just that if you make it a goal..you would actually think about it...try and figure out why its happening with you...or how you can work it out...would notice things about you or your life...And thats exactly what happened with me...I'm not a hard to please person or not a very demanding person or one with really big dreams...So i used to get sad..wh… Read how I did it…
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1 month ago
I’ve just have a baby and that’s makes me very happy.
Before married I have a perfect life. I have a good job & I’m helping my sisters to get to the college and helping them if they need some money for living.
I have a wonderful life.
But everythng change as I moved to my husband’s house. It’s my husband’ parent’s house.
They control my life, they never want me to get happy. Their happy is only for their son and their granschildren, not for me. Ofcourse.
I’ve leave my life and leave my family, is this what I have now??
They never wants me to get happy.
paula is dreaming
this is a forever-goal, day by day
2 months ago
actually i am happy.
and i hope i’ll stay happy forever. (:
KikiScorpio92 I don't like you , but still can't get you off my lips ...
i just feel to run away...
2 months ago
every day,every night is a struggle for me. i revamped my self in 2007 becuase i was just really ,truly unhappy with myself.. i lost friends, and my grades at school were okay. 2008 was the change i need but everytime i lay down at night even though i’ve had good day and good time there’s a clear thought in the back of mind that says “am i truly happy” it upset just thinking about it and i have them times where i cry so hard to be like other people happy& free. it’s being haunting me sinceiwas little and i don’t think i can cope with life much longer :(
MissyClaire is working on becoming great!
Untitled
3 months ago
I want to be happy.
I want to be happy and bright.
I want to smile sweet smiles.
I want to believe in myself.
I want to believe that I can trust myself.
I choose to be happy.
I choose to smile.
I choose to work on me.
It is a choice.
I choose to make decisions that will make me happy.
I understand that things happen in life. We must learn on building ourselves up.
The purpose of life is to sustain happiness.
There is a part of me that is dark.Jiberishhhhhh
Being free
3 months ago
I have been unhappy for so long….I am proud to say that I am a happy person today. Things worked out for me since High School days. I’m pretty, I have good friends, a job and I am way closer to my family now. I feel Blessed. But…after all the dating experiences…I’ve gone from rushing into dating to scarcely dating. It helped in so many ways…but I’m still lonely. I need to be happy and not feel lonely. I do better on my own, but for once, I feel like being with someone seriously…me loving him and he loving me back….I want to be happy. Not just in 1 or 2 areas.
Untitled
4 months ago
It seems impossible for me to be happy all the time, but it’s extremely important. I know that happiness don’t depend of external factors it’s personal characteristic.
Untitled
5 months ago
I guess its time to put this goal in the “Ive done it” list…as this is not a task..i mean there is no duration for it to get completed in…Its a life long goal…A feeling..
So now as I’ve understood happiness is just a state of mind..If you choose to be happy you will be..and if you choose to be unhappy or unsatisfied even when you have everything…then you would feel miserable…
Seeing things this way…I guess I’l just try to find happiness in watever I have…and feel satisfied in what I have..
“WANT” is the biggest evil…lol..
Untitled
6 months ago
I just want to be happy and not feel like I have to make everyone else happy all the time.
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