stop trying to fix everything

i somehow feel like i need to fix whatever is going on my significant others’ problem. a part of me hopes that they see me for the good i try to do. but it tends to back fire on me. everyone i go an extra mile for end up taking me for granted. i am under appreciated instead i am resented. i dont know if people like me if i am not doing anything for them. because i have always done and constantly trying other peoples’ problem. i wonder how many of the people would like me if i didnt do anything extra ?

Whatever goes wrong I feel like I have to fix. Whether its my best friend crying or my sister not doing her homework. So many people have told me that I need to stop trying to fix everything, that Im not the one responsible. Then how come I always feel like I am. Everyone always comes to me to talk about their problems but when I need to talk about something I can never go to anyone?

I always think I am resposible for everyone and everything. I always think I could have done better, or I could have done more. I sometimes get to the point where I overdo something so horribly it would have been better if I had just left it alone. It took a tiny puppy dying in the palm of my hand for me to realize that it sometimes isn’t that you haven’t done enough, but that you have done too much.