Learn how to make myself happy.

i want to find peace inside me. i left my bible and that why i’m not happy at all.

I seem to lose every guy that comes into my life. Even when I do things that the guy wants he finds a reason to leave. I actually know why I cant keep a guy && the reason is because I am so shy && conservative. I dont blame the guys I just wish I could find a guy who will except me as I am. My shyness limits me sooooo much but no matter how hard I try to change I cant. People keep telling me you should be more outgoing but its easier said than done. On the other hand I have people who say just be who you are && you will find someone who will except you the way you are. I feel like my life is pointless and it feels like there is a hole in my heart that needs to be filled. This hole has been here for about 13 years. I dont know what to do but each day that pass && each guy that leaves my life makes this hole bigger && bigger. I HATE MY LIFE

I’m really shy i don’t talk to anyone and i want to meet people without staying away from everyone it makes me so unhappy because i can’t get enough courage up to do anything about it, i just want to be able to go out their and feel free to do whatever i want but instead i just stay away from everything and everyone i just wish i had enough courage to make me happy.

I think I’ve broken the habit of calling other people when I’m feeling bad. I found out some upsetting information a couple of weeks ago. I didn’t call any of my friends to tell them or to get their input or advice. I’m proud of myself for that!

i want to make myself happy

i lost myslef when i met him and now sice were not togther he moved to a diffrent sate but were still dating i lost myself and i can’t seem to get back what do i do to make myself happy again

I think that when I care about myself more it will be easier to make myself happy!

Part of making myself happy is sticking up for myself and not letting other people walk all over me. And, another part of making myself happy is trusting my gut and making decisions for myself and not to make other people happy.

It’s sounds stupidly obvious but I think just learning to focus on me will help with this. A few weeks ago I went to a concert with some friends. There were a few people invited to go and some were backing out and others were iffy. One of the iffy ones was someone I was really looking forward to seeing. My typical action would have been to get all worked up about who was or wasn’t going and who I was disappointed to not see or disappointed to have to spend the evening with. So…. I made a concscious decision before I left to focus on what the evening was REALLY about. For me I REALLY wanted to hear this AWESOME band and I had at least one friend to go with so I wouldn’t be stuck not going because I had no one to go with. I decided to focus on the band and the great music and being there and having a good time. I forgot about everyone else and decided not worry about who did and didn’t show. I ended up having a great evening. I think I need to make an effort to focus on me more and not worry so much about everyone else and what they are doing and thinking and feeling.

Just too weak in relating or communicating with people …
- need to strengthen my mind that we are all the same … U cannot escape from the norm of human psychology. We all think/suffer/react the same, more or less.
—need to find something more meaningful to divert my attention … relax and enjoy life
- need to culture good thinking and suppress negative thinking