get him to like me

all i have to do is talk to him
=D

eventhough he liked me at first my acting in front of him and many little things made him run away from me. and he decided to get back with his girlfriend but , as if that were enough he is dating another girl so , here’s the deal his girlfriend lives in another city… i don’t care about her.. but i want to get him to like me AGAIN, and make that little bitch he is dating to stop doing it..

I guess I didn’t really “do this.” I mean, I wasn’t successful in getting him to like me. But I was successful in getting over him, which is just as applaudable an effort, I think. Finally, I’m seeing other people – not just as “not him,” but really seeing them. And as I look around, I don’t really see anyone to replace that space in my heart, I know that I don’t need it. He and I are still good friends and our relationship is the same. And it’s perfect.

I know I’ve said it before, but it’s permanent this time: I’m over him. Period.

I’m on a pretty good pace – I can’t stop thinking about him and the more I do, the more I want him to be mine alone. Last night, he took me back to his place. We were sitting on his couch and we just looked into each other’s eyes. So much so I wanted to look at his closer – they’re gray and beautiful, and I don’t know what color they’re supposed to be – and I thought of pulling his face closer to mine, and then visions swept through my mind of kissing him, with my hands on his neck… NO, Sarah, NO!

He’s been acting differently. Different, yet exactly the same. That doesn’t make any sense. But neither does any of the rest of this situation. Do I go on and tell him? I tried that four months ago, and I doubt his answer’s changed. But what if it has?

Perhaps I’ll let the summer take its course – let me get over him or let his feelings for me grow. Either way, next year will be interesting… All his other friends are leaving, and mine are, too. I don’t know where I’m going to be, but I’m fairly sure a great amount of my time will be spent with him.

He’s just so wonderful!

I just want it all to be over.

But I can’t seem to shake this feeling like we’re meant for something more.

“I’ve got birds in my ears and a devil on my shoulder and a phone to the other and I can’t get ahold of her; what’s a crush to do? What’s a crush to do when he can’t get through.” Obviously, change the “he” and the “her” but other than that, it’s me… I can’t let him go… I can’t get the devil off my shoulder telling me to push on, I can’t get rid of the need to be with him.

I saw him last night. We hung out this morning. I had an interview with him. And I still miss him sitting here now.

Perhaps it’s that I love being around someone who’s of the same maturity level (that seems hard to come by around here.)

Maybe it’s the way we laugh together about everything. Maybe it’s that we know each other so well that we’ve come to peace in that we can just be together and not worry about anything.

Three months is a long time to spend away from the best person I’ve ever known. How shall I survive?

Perhaps it’s best – us spending time apart. Not that I feel like I could ever deal with him ever having another girl. I can’t believe what I must have done to him in dating another guy…
Not that A) he didn’t have his chance or B) I acted any differently around him. Perhaps that was the problem all-around: I am not willing to sacrifice time with him for anyone, and unfortunately it was someone I was dating.

... He said he’d never be jealous …

I think I might love him… And there’s nothing I can do…

I liked HIM so fiercely for MONTHS! I liked him more than I’ve ever liked a guy before. I told him how I felt, and he said that though he was flattered, he’d rather just stay friends. I accepted that and got over him (or so I thought), but we stayed friends. He’s actually my best friend now…
I dated someone else for about 3 months. Things just didn’t work out between us – we were very different. Another reason I think we didn’t click is that HE was still in the back of my mind as that image of perfection. We broke up a week ago, and since then, I’ve gotten such strong vibes from HIM – little things – but as I told a friend yesterday, I think I’m falling for HIM all over again. And I don’t know what that means…

I don’t want to hurt for HIM. I did that for a really long time, and knowing I can’t have him and that he doesn’t/didn’t feel that way for me is obviously a major drawback. But I can’t seem to get HIM out of my head. We have ten THOUSAND inside jokes together, and we just “get” each other. I’m completely myself around HIM despite whatever implications that might have. I don’t want to do this to myself again, but I really can’t help the way I feel…
I hate that I can’t get over HIM. But he’s always there… And he’s been making little implications lately… About how we always understand each other (and are on the same wavelength) and how we almost have our own style of communication… I don’t mean to sound like some weird, stalker-like psychopath, but I really love HIM so much, and there’s no one else like HIM! I guess I know that, given the opportunity, he’d probably choose my roommate over me, but I don’t really know… Maybe not… And maybe he’ll never choose me… But maybe he will…

and i’m glad i finally did. now the most amazing guy that i kept overlooking before is dating me and i LOVE being with him. basically, if its not happening you don’t need to force it. someone else that’s much more worthwhile may be waiting for you to move on!