be charming

I have a great sense of humor. I’m pretty intelligent and well informed. I’m outgoing. But I’m very impatient with people, topics and things that don’t interest me. That is when it is MOST important to be charming. That is when I’m least likely to be charming…

if charm isn’t natrural what is the point? if you met me and found me charming and but i wasn’t trying to charm you that would be great. but imho charm is not something a great priority for an adult. it’s suspect. it’s a means to an end for a lot of people so it’s a turn off for me. and the people who consider themselves charming: X$ yucky!

the few people i would like to charm are few and far between. maybe it would be a useful skill… but i just don’t want to be one of those people. especially not right now.

“We are born charming, fresh and spontaneous and must be civilised before we are fit to participate in society.”

someone called me charming. <3 i must be doing something right. ;)

when i was younger i oozed charm because it was fun and i loved myself. now i’m all grown up and serious and not so charming. i don’t want to be charming in order to manipulate people.

but recently i’ve gotten into acting and i heard noel fielding say that if you are charming the audience will sort of root for which is helpful if you are having a hard time. that’s definately useful in acting.

in reality i could be more charming too… and in a way it’s just letting people see a more interesting lovable side of you.

I can be persuasive I don’t know if she will call me. I know I wont call her, so I will have to wait to see how charming I was. My money is on she will call, at least I hope so.

I would hate all that charm to be wasted on a one night stand.

I’m the type of person who you can easily catch with their hair standing up an a few inches from their actual head and food from whoknowswhen stuck in their teeth. It’s not that I don’t take care of myself, it’s just I don’t know how to do it, exactly. My mom never taught me this stuff and I feel a little embarrased asking her so late.

“Mom, am I shampooing right?”

dont be cocky

It’s all about self-confidence. Theres no tricks here folks. I’ve broken it down in my head that if your comfortable in every aspect of who you are, you can do anything, say anything, or get anything you want. There might be 10 hott girls in the room with one gorgeous guy, but even if your only pretty and cute, if you add a heaping-helping of self-confidence, I garrentee that he will notice you out of the 10 girls. It’s about knowing that you can be the better one out of all the people your around. And if you act like you know it, you’ll get noticed.

Let me just say, it’s great to want to become more charming, but it sounds so much easier than it really is. You might think that by watching every James Bond film 4 times, you will get more charming, or by learning Sean Connery’s accent, but it’s so much more complicated.
To be charming, in my opinion, is the ability to make everybode feel better when people are around you, and to be able to make others smile. But this doesn’t meam you should act like a clown whenever you’re around someone. It’s also about being classy, in every aspect: clothing, manners, hair, etc. It’s the subtlety in these things that make the difference: Being mysterious, extravert, funny and calm at the same time.
I’m interested in how you feel about this, if you feel the same way or not, and how you’re succeeding in doing this. Good luck.