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I got a couple of books, but one in particular has been really helpful in providing PRACTICAL and actionable solutions. It’s called 1-2-3 Magic and it’s been a total LIFESAVER in our house. Right now we are simply working on STOP behaviors. I cannot believe that a process so simple is so effective.
The great thing about this book is that the author totally “gets” the parenting thing – the frustration, yelling, spanking, all of it and he’s not judgemental! In other words, I didn’t walk away from this book feeling like the worst parent in the world. As I read it, I felt he was truly understanding of the challenges and reality of parenting and not about making you feel crappier than you already do.
I can’t wait to move on to START behaviors. I’ve learned a ton. Our house is calmer. My kids know I mean it when I tell them something and I’ve learned how to stop most obnoxious behavior before it really gets rolling. And I’m a calmer, more in-control, happier parent. Hallelujah!
