love and be loved unconditionally

HA! We can all dream….. :)

Is there any other way?

When you love unconditionally you accept everything about this person with no question. If you are in a “love relationship” you are responsible for your own actions. If you get involved physically it’s your choice. It’s your own decision and you have to face yourself in the mirror. Believe that this adventure is in your own making. Think about why you are choosing this adventure, is it ego or conquest? Analyze yourself, your motives and dig deep should it not work out, how would you feel. We are all together in this world, and we all need and desire to be loved. None of us is “perfect” or “perfected” we all have flaws. But, we all have talents and gifts to share with one another. We all need a hug, a smile, a word of encouragement. Being truly Hu-Man is a step up in the process of evolving. Making someone else’s day, letting them know they matter is a great gift. Let go of yourself and spread the sunshine within yourself to others. Life becomes purposeful and wonderous. Love is what it’s all about.

I have been on a journey to accomplish this for quite a while. I am a rather determined person, so am a bit consumed by this. I have met and dated a couple men over the past few years, (one in particular) who I really felt I loved. I believed he loved me also, until he seemed to change. (Why do they always do this?) Now I don’t know if he ever really loved me or not. If you love somebody truly, how can it just go away? How can you just decide to let it go one day and never look back again? I can’t do this.. I love unconditionally, anything else is not “love” in my eyes. I love truly and devote myself to being with the person. I don’t let little problems interfere with the love I have for the person.
It seems not all people do this though. Or maybe they do if truly in love. Maybe the guy didn’t really love me at all. What makes me so mad is when people do/say things in the name of love in order just to get what they want. I think that is one of the lowest things a person can do.

I stopped looking and had given up. I wouldn’t give him the time of day. Now I married him and can’t be any happier. I love him unconditionally as he loves me.

How can he not talk about things after you have been intimate? And yet you talk almost each day? I am inlove with him…. but I CANT TELL HIM