find out if I am moving on

a different attitude – even though not permanently.
Doing one thing after the other, getting adjusted to the various requirements of my “jobs” (husband and father are no “jobs”, rather “roles”).

would be the first and most important question to be asked and answered?
Can anyone tell me this?
Or do I have to do that by myself?

better?
Am I an acticve person?
Am i communicative? Attractive? Sexy?
Loving enough?
Loveable?
Charming?
Calculable?
Good-Humoured?
More than before?

I act more intelligently?
Can people understand what I am after?
Why I do things the way I do them?
Am I fast / slow enough?
Can I inspire them?

do I grow in my personality,
is there a shift in focus?
Am i more goal-orientated?