10/03/08 – brought him coffee in bed this morning
10/12/08 – he couldn’t find his wallet this morning and was storming all over the house & car looking for it. Insisted he had it the night before when he picked up Chinese food. Despite my own pressing time crunch, I stopped getting ready for work and started systematically looking for it too. (In the chair downstairs, in the kitchen on the counter where the food was set, in the laundry-checking all his pockets.) Didn’t repond verbally to his increasingly fowl mood/language – just kept looking. He finally found it under the bed where it had fallen when he emptied his pockets the night before. He mumbled “thanks” as he raced out of the house for work.
Ok – it isn’t romantic, but it’s concrete.
10/18/08 – reponded with ‘sure’ when he asked if I’d make oatmeal for breakfast that morning. (I never feel like doing ANYTHING in the morning – ha!)
10/19/08 – Greeted him with a big hug when we converged in the kitchen – both headed for the coffeemaker. Let him switch channels from Sunday morning to football while he was getting dressed upstairs. (I was watching in bed while eating breakfast – so I switched over to reading.)
10/31/08 – hung out together on the steps handing out Halloween candy. Lots of joking, talking, listening – good time together.
11/04/08 – :-P
