A to-do list
15 months ago

- Re-read the Gottman book carefully and write a ten-step action plan
- Wash her car again
- Vacuum her car
- Celebrate her finishing the first stage of her paper (and the second; and the third; etc.)
- Strive to be kind and present during our interactions
- Work some of the “All About Me” questions into each day
Rub her shoulders while she’s sitting.
- Write a list of “ten ridiculously romantic surprises for $100.00 or less.” Do them.
- Buy her a few pairs of panties, to replace the ones I ruined in the wash.
- Plant flowers in the windowsill for her.
- Support her more during her job search
Give her a one hour massage.
Apr 01, 2008, 05:58AM PDT | 4 cheers | 4 comments

- Take her to the Original Pancake House for breakfast.
- Clean the bathroom really well, then give her a bubble bath with flowers and candles.
Get my Mom to switch us over to her Sprint plan.
- Sign her up for the black history month read-in.
- Take notes from the Essential Hinduism book and share them with her.
- Ask her how her day was and really listen.
Wear a really stylish, colorful outfit when we go out together.
- Order some books through interlibrary loan that show how to give a woman better orgasms. Practice.
Keep the office clean.
- Wash her car again.
Vacuum and detail the inside.
Make her a few more mp3 CDs for her car.
Write her love letters and leave them for her to find when I’m not around.
- Backup her computer for her.
Nov 18, 2007, 08:48AM PST | 7 cheers | 10 comments