So I listened in on my boyfriend, who I very rarely understand about his problems.. Simply because I may be a selfish human being who is envious, has no confidence in herself and always put herself before others. However, I listened, I took it into steps bit by bit as he explained how much he missed his kids, how his wife is not letting him see them.. And I can see now, the hurt that a Father has to go through when not seeing his 2 children that he brought up for the last 14-15 years. You need to put yourself in their shoes; how would YOU feel going through that? It’s purely abandonment. I apologise to him and myself for being the way I was. 4 months ago

I want to be more understanding in general, but especially for my fiance. He is from another country and we sometimes don’t understand how each other acts…or agree for that matter…but I want to be more understanding of him, thus more supportive. It will make things less stressful for him, and in return makes me a much stronger woman. 16 months ago