Hi I am 20 yrs.old,I am 4’11,slim yet curvy,adventorous,outgoing,passionate,romantic,I have always wanted to date a talented musician I would go to all of his performances and support him!!!
How to date a musician
How I did it: I used to run a silk screening biz and sold shirts at local shows. Well I would sponsor bands, and through this I dated two dudes.
The first one was a crazy bass player who was a nice guy but had a hidden coke problem..The second guy was not so harmless.. I entered a two year relationship which totally ended in a restraining order. While he was a good guitar player in a local band, he had some serious issues.
Keep in mind though that this is totally a generalization.. and while I know this is my personal expierence I was very invovled with the whole scene and can say that there are some definite issues in the subculture that are much more prevalent in the people involved then other subcultures!
Lessons & tips: In some situations... people more inclinded to the arts more then normal.. use their talents (or lack-there-of!) to deal with issues they have and sometimes even that is not enough. Be very mindful of red flags that may show you some insight on things like a drug problem or some sort of mental illness!
Don't let them win your heart through a song.. its so much more then just that image
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well, then again, i am one myself. the guy i am dating is a drummer in jazz band, jams with his buddies, etc…whereas i play piano, oboe, and English Horn and am involved in a symphony orchestra and more classical stuff…i find that it complements nicely.
i have dated three other musicians…one was sweet as anything but a wimp, the other (a classical musician) was a real momma’s boy and a worrywart, and the last was i suppose the “typical” musician…never know where he is, promiscuous, immature, unreliable.
so it really depends on the guy…not ALL musicians are spacey.
Stephanie wishes she was more motivated.
I’ve dated three. Musicians are difficult people. I love them, and I can appreciate them because I’m a visual arts girl. But damn. They have so much emotion wrapped up in their art that they really suck with human interaction. Their songs are so insightful, but jesus their people skills suck.
If you can find one and tame them, good for you. I bet dating a musician capable of allowing himself to be human would be super-awesome. I just haven’t found one yet. I’m thinking about dating… an accountant. Haha. That would be extremely boring, but it might be better than another damn musician breaking my heart (and then singing about it later—don’t you hate that?!)
pinkthinkgirl has missed this place and feels like giving it an awkward bear hug
Musicians are usually immature, self-absorbed, and completely irresistible.




