forget a guy

Im in a relationship that dosent quaet sartisfy me, but wre comfortable… started new job ...and GM of business next doors.. i just cant get him out of my head! His clever, deep, funny …. Sometimes i think hi likes me and other days thet hi dosent care.. and it tears my life apart cos i can not concentrate on anything… and the funny thing is – im old enaugh to know betther, good looking(without beeing arrogan) and get loads of attention from other men…. i feel like hi is the one , like we would suit each other so well. I can not come clear to him simply because ill nead to share on office with him!!!1 If only hi could….go on maternity he he he see, even this letter proves that im going crazy …. any sencible andvice?

today i couldn’t stop thinking about a guy i go to school with…we have a really weird past, i fell for him when he was still a dorky loveable nerd, and then he changed into someone ‘cool’ and i wasn’t good enough for him to waste his time with..now he keeps staring at me and i thought i moved past him months ago but i think im falling back again for him. any suggestions as to…well exactly what i should do?

I want to forget him. He cheated on me twice and he flirted with my best friend. Now he made a rule that I cannot contact him because his friend is using his cellphone and told me to wait until he can contact me but actually he still use his cellphone. For how long must I suffer? This is not healthy. This is not what i deserve. I’ll overcome this..in time.

Ever since Ive started my new job, Ive been having strong feelings for this guy. The crazy thing is, he probably doesnt even like me back. We talk all the time, and hes really talkative and funny.He tends to flirt with me alot too. Now, Everytime I see him, my heart drops, and I get that butterlfy feeling inside. And to top all of this off, I have a boyfriend, goin on 5 years. I just dont get that same feeling from my boyfriend, that i get from when talkin to my coworker. I dont want to feel this way, even though my coworker makes my heart flutter. I havent had this feeling since I first met my boyfriend(almost 5 years ago).I really need help and advice! I know this feeling is wrong and i want to overcome it. Or is it wrong? I need to forget about my coworker and its driving me crazy! I think he knows that I like him too. But I dont want to and its hard when you see him everyday! what do i do?

You see i have been in love twice in my 23 years of life. First one was my high school sweet-heart and our relationship was really strong and we didn’t even realize that we were in love a little over a year after we started dating. It all lasted 3 yrs and half….and had to end for some complicated reasons…....

A year later I learned to live and enjoy life without my first ex and I know i will always love and respect him, but I am over him.

NOw…. when i didn’t even think i can fall in love again, I found myself in love with my best friend, who is also madly in love with me. BUT THERE IS A PROBLEM, he is in a LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP with someone he barely knows and has a kid with her….
HE takes care of his son and helps out more than what is expected of him and I really appriciate that!
BUT I find myself mad at myself for falling for the wrong person. Love happens to you before you know it so you don’t really know who you might end up falling for right? (at least thats how it is with me)

Anyways, since he isn’t even in love with her and all….I tried resisting him and trying to ignore my feelings but its is SO SO SO HARD! TRUST ME I TRIED!

Now…. two years later, his long distance girl wants to see if they could start over and try to get their relationship work, and he refuses because he says he’s in love with me …..

And when I heard that I couldn’t even sleep for a sec., so I broke it off because I don’t want to be that someone …..

I feel terriable, and I am just devestated!
He calls again and again, but I can’t reply cause I know i am not strong enough to resist him so I don’t even want to put myself in that position…

I just want to forget him!
Any ideas to make it easier?

when i came here to belgium i was sure that i was going to meet the love of my life, i moved away because i had to study in belgium, and back home there were two guys who really hurt me, the first one broke my heart and i kind of fell in love(because i was still really hurt because of the first one) with the second one,we did real great things together,but he just didn’t love me,i told myself that i didn’t mind because anyway i was going to move here. but the fact is that when i eventually arrived here, i was such an emotional wreck and i just couldn’t get myself to have faith in anybody, but i kept feeling that need to be loved(because i live here all alone, no families, and all new people),then i met this guy, whose in my courses, and there’s this thing about him that attracted me and just won’t let me forget him, but the fact is that i’m so afraid of getting hurt that i keep avoiding him, earlier this year we were friends, but now i’ve become colder with him in a desperate attempt to stop myself from falling in love, but lately it’s not working anymore, i really like him, but i don’t think he likes me, and i just wish i could forget him, because i don’t think i would bear having my heart bruised once again…

I wish I could forget him. I was at DisneyLand and he and I were both on that monorail thing. It was crowded so lucky for me I got to sit by him. He smelled like really good. Since he was all spread out, his knee was touching mine. I don’t usually like people touching me but I let this one slide. I only saw him again on our last day in LA. We were at a Chinese place where they cook the food in front of you and lots of different people share a table. And who should sit down by me? But that guy from the monorail. My heart skipped a beat. We got to talking and I found out his name is Matt and he is from Utah. He also said he thought I smelled good that fateful day on the monorail. After we left, I never saw him again. I wish I could just forget him.

Today I realized that I have forgot a guy that I have been in love with for the past 2 years. He never loved me and that made me depressed. But now he’s out of my thoughts and it feels great.

after all this time, i think most ppl wud have figured it out, u can’t really say you’ve done it… its not about forgetting, because forgetting someone takes time, that is time away and it cud be years, and even after awhile, u never truly forget…
I find him still in my thoughts sometimes, like now… XD
i guess the only way u can say u’ve done it is if u’ve lost your memory somehow ^{-*
anyhoo, for now, im happy juz forgetting to think abt him… ^}

It was so hard, yet so worth it. I wouldn’t say that I forget. Occasionally I find them in my thoughts, but I guess the trick is then I forget to keep thinking about them.