hipstersparadise just getting started.
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I’m not un-confident but I could be more confident!
So I’m going to try!
Good luck everybody!
anna2fat love to live and live to love :o)
because i dont myself i automatically think others dont like me either. I want to be confident enough to like and be ok with myself
disenchanted184 is working on being more self-confident
I feel like I’ve made progress with this one, too.
The last guy that I dated made me feel truly beautiful, loved, and accepted (sometimes). Of course, it didn’t work out, but that feeling hasn’t gone away.
With him, he appreciated everything that I considered a “flaw” with my body. It made me think that even though I wasn’t and would never be traditionally beautiful, I was still pretty in my own way.
That outlook gives me hope for the future, because I hope that although not everyone will appreciate me the way he did, there’s got to be at least a few other people and other guys who will.
Luxurious building my confidence
I am really starting to realize that I can do just about anything I want. I don’t want to be afraid anymore and I am tired of thinking about things before I do them. I want to be able to let go and just do what I want without being afraid of people judging me. If they do, it’s ok. I’m me and im always going to be me. I can be myself and someone will love me for who I am. I have gained a lot of self-awareness since my grandmother passed. I think she was touching me with the hand of God to let me know that I can be successful if I CHOOSE to be. Remember, YOU have the power.
Flip175 is working on procrastination
So I decided to take a risk and put myself out there by participating in my school’s talent show with my band. I was super nervous because I had never performed in front of an audience before, no less one made up of my peers!
Needless to say, I had an amazing time. I was so nervous leading up to it but once it was happening, it was such a rush. I’m definitely feeling better about myself and know I could do something like this again without a hitch.
disenchanted184 is working on being more self-confident
I don’t think that lacking self-confidence is a bad thing unless it gets out of hand, but personally, it has affected my relationships.
About to enter a new relationship now, I think that this goal is important in order to make this relationship work to the best of its ability.
It’ll take a long time to accomplish, but I’m already making small steps forward. Asking this particular guy to our winter formal was a step. A year ago I would have just sat around adnd waited for him to ask me, but this time I was proactive…(Y)
Flip175 is working on procrastination
I think self confidence is hugely important, especially in crucial times like these for me. I don’t think I completely lack confidence, but it could definitely be better.
I just need to make sure I believe in myself enough to take risks that are worth taking, and such.