Stop living in fear

I live my life with a lot of anxiety and fear. I don’t really know why, but thanks to a crazy friend I have who never lets me give into it I find myself constantly confronting my fears and overcoming them. You will be amazed what you can do when you have someone there to give you a push. I am still living my life trying to not give in to my fear and anxiety. Here are some tips that help me -http://blog.dalecarnegie.com/tipsforsuccess/20-tips-on-overcoming-fear/

Funny as soon as I left that state the fear began to lift. Not that I’m totally unafraid now but I feel a lot better. I’ve gone back to chanting prayers; that is what has helped me the most. I went back to studying the I AM movement literature and saying my violet flame decrees.
http://thevioletflame.tripod.com/
http://www.saintgermainpress.com/
http://www.templeofthepresence.org/

and am going to get a job as a teacher buy a car and a house. I have a friend in Albuquerque who is very anti home ownership, domestic values etc and I am either going to limit my time with him or cut him out of my life altogether. This decision hurts but it is what I have to do to have the type of secure life I deserve.

I dont know what to do, every morning when my husband leaves for work. I find myself not being able to sleep. I hear noises and often times scare myself so much I just get up rather than try to sleep. The two times I have been able to fall back asleep I have had intense nightmares until I wake up, and of those two times I was only asleep for about a half hour. I dont know how to not be scared when he leaves. I turn all the lights on lock the dead bolt, and still I cannot manage to make myself go back to sleep. This makes me soooo angry cause I feel like people are winning and taking over my life. ANY ADVICE????

for some strange reason believe I’m scared like a small tiny mouse. Here I’m a grown man and I’m thinking tremble like a puppy about stupid stuff. Why can’t I walk and talk like I live to the fullest? My arms when I walk are stiff. I “feel” the stiffness of fear in how I carry myself around others. Fear is disabling me from feeling loose and comfortable. I feel as if I can’t simply be myself. yuck.

of people hurting me
of myself, of my needs, of my dreams
of accomplishing things
of making the most of what I have
of reaching out to others
of loneliness
of being rejected once more
of meeting inadequate people once more
of losing my family
of falling ill
of having an accident
of facing people
of being happy
of taking care of myself
of deeming my life important to me
of truly living
of not waiting day by day for death to come

These are the fears haunting me. These are the fears I have to overcome.

to living with less fear is to GET OUT OF UTAH. I have decided that as of today. I’ve been living in the wrong state the last three years and it needs to end. Utah is not good for me; I don’t feel happy or comfortable here and NEVER WILL. ENOUGH of the fear! Utah, YOU CAN’T SCARE ME ANYMORE.

I decided today that fear is a force destined to control my natural inclination to be happy. Fear kills the soul, cripples the senses and stalls the providence of success. Fear is intended to prevent good things from happening. In a wise book “Basic-Instructions-Before-Leaving-Earth” (The BIBLE),it states that, “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear:because fear hath torment. he that feareth is not made perfect in love.1 John 4:18.
My love is made perfect in the God: because “God Is Love”. If I do not love God then he does not dwell in me and I in him. My fear comes when I am hateful to my enemies, I must love my enemies and forgive them. If I harbor unforgiveness in my heart and wish evil things on those who have wronged me then how can I be made perfect in the love of God. Beloved, if God so loves me, I must love eachother,then God will live in me and and his love is perfected in me. Lack of love is the source of my fears, and there is no mental peace for those who has no love.

.....that’s why I’m gonna meet him tomorrow.

it’s the whole urban congested vibe thing. I think I’m paticularly sensitive to these types of environments and that what bothers me is not my own fear but the vibration of the whole area I live in. This will be regarded as an excuse by some I’m sure but it makes sense to me.