get over my heartbreak

PICKED THE WRONG GUY AND GAVE HIM THE WRONG FINGER! LOL

They actually make cards its a buisness started by Diane Farr (actress) when her engagement ended she needed to find a way to tell 300 guests that the wedding was off so she went to her bestfriends house and sent out 300 cards with that message above lol there’s other sayings as well
and its not just for breakups or divorces they have cards for unemployment, sobriety,even for plastic surgery you have to check it out some are pretty funny www.otherannouncements.com

As 43 things member laura said “every one plays the fool” :( lol

Today’s not a really good day i wish he wasn’t on my mind :(

This will probably be the first of many, many posts. Its part of my way of getting threw the bad relationship that im so happy that i was in and yet so upet. Im happy i went threw that relationship because it was a BIG learning experience for me (that took me 3 months to finally aprreciate it) Yet i find myself thinking back to him almost every morning and threw out the day (the part that upsets me) It was a an emotional relationship with many ups and downs and yes i miss him but the strange thing is that im not missing the last year we were together (we were together for 2 1/2 years) but i keep thinking about all the moments we had in that first year. why is that?

Okay, never done this before but nothing else seems to be working so I’ll give it a try. A week and 1/2 ago the love of my life told me that he didn’t love me anymore. He did this by leaving me a message on my parents answering machine even though we lived together. Funny thing is that morning when I left for work he kissed me goodbye and told me that he loved me. When I stopped at my parents after work there was a message for me, I serioulsy thought it was a sick joke or that he was messing with me, but the jokes on me. I got him to come talk to me in person that day while I packed my things, I wanted answers. He couldn’t even look me in the eye and he cried then would get mad at me a kick me out, then he said that he didn’t love me at all, took that back and said that he loved me as a friend only. It kept going back and forth like that for about an hour until he finally left. I of course call him the next day crying like a baby begging for him to hear me out and get no response. Finally a week later I had to go get my computer and he was there so we kinda talked. He still wouldn;t look me in the eye, he says he felt guilty for leaving a message like a coward and that it is hard and weird to talk to me since we are over. Our relationship wasn’t perfect but we had been through so much and made it that I didn’t see this coming. He said he wants space, but all I want is a chance to be with him. I know that we can make it work how do I get him to see this. I can understand where he is coming from when he say’s he needs space because we were kind suffacating eachother always together but that can change especially since we both wanted it to. I don’t want to call him and be that pathetic ex who can’t get a clue but I can’t stand the thought of him with someone else. He cancelled the home phone nad got a new cell but he gave me the # what does that mean. I hate this confused feeling and I miss my best friend. Everyone says it will get better and I want to beleive that but I am positive that we could outlast them all given the chance. I know I need to give him space and hopefully he’ll miss me, but when you are with someone for 5 years you get into a routine so life is of course going to be exciting when you are hanging out with different people not having to worry about the person at home and whether they will be mad, happy, sad etc.. when you get home. This also leaves me with a small amount of hope thinking give it time and he’ll come back. What happens when he doesn’t. I know that the breakup is fresh and that I am supposedly going to feel better in time and I’m sure I will but that doesn’t mean I don’t know what I want and love which is my ex. How do you get what you want without being in their life. I am confused and heartbroken and want him back. He has his faults and so do I but together we were amazing and of course nobody sees that now all they ever say is over the phone, what an ass, hes not worth it, but he is. I can’t seem to get the hope that he will realize he made a mistake and call me if I just leave it alone, but what if he finds someone else while I’m waiting for the right time to call him. I am very confused and need any advice on this.

me n my ex have been together bout 4 years, well not really we broke up in jan of 07, we have two beautiful kids, we r only 20 n 22..him being the younger one..we broke up bcuz he cheated on me for months, with only one girl, but he wanted to be with her, not me…after we broke up and i moved out, he didnt get with her, he started drinking alot and got with a crazy girl, that stalked him and didnt let him be around me or the kids unless she was there. throughout their entire 6 month relationship me n him were still messin around, he would tell me how he missed us and how if we were to b together again we’d have to change things. but when he broke up with her, we were still everything we were, he says we r together, just without the title…in april we moved back in together and he had the option of having his own room but chose to b in mine. after we moved in he started sneakin around with the crazy girl..after that stopped he started workin at a fast food place and his manager lives right by us, so he started hangin out with her, wich i thought was ok cuz 4 the 5 years i known him he always said he dont believe in interracial relationships, and shes a different race..but then he tells his bst friend, he likes her and that i will eventually figure out he wants more than just friends with her..idk wat to do nemore..we always fight n make up n he will pull somethin like this and i forgive him. i dont want to ne more. i jst want to move on and get over him. its so hard when u think you r gonna be with someone forever and they treat u so bad. i need all the advice i can get on how to get over him

So I’m new to this thing, just to let everyone know… I guess I’m just tired of venting to friends, because I know they’re tired of me having feelings for an asshole. My situation is this: I was with a guy for over 4 years, together for most of it… then, about 4 months ago, out of the blue I found out he’s moving out (from his best friend), only to discover he is interested in this other girl (a situation which I had called for 2 weeks)... so he packed up his stuff (took everything for me not to throw his clothes in the snow). His last words to me: “I need a break.” We live in a small town, so I put my big girl pants on and toughed it out.. I didn’t say a word to him when we were out, despite him and these “girls” that he was interested in finding ways to torment me (one actually tried to confront me…! I didn’t say a word back). Anyways, so I get this email about a month ago, asking if we could talk… I was shocked. I responded 2 weeks later with a fine… ended up talking to him for 7 hours, listening to how badly he messed up, how he was “scared” becuase falling in love wasnt his plan… he right then and there said he wanted to be with me, he knew the whole time he wnatd to be with me and any time another girl was around, he always thought about how she wasnt me. So we’ve been talking for the past few weeks, trying to get past things, when the other night, I found out he slept with someone else. They both say it was a huge mistake, he cried for hours about how he messed things up. From his side of things – she started it; from her side, he did. And each side’s story keeps elaborating – first he was just “nice” to her in the morning, now he was kissing her… I don’t know what to do or what to believe. Am I asking for it to keep talking to a guy like this? How do I say goodbye… again My biggest thing is this – I did some things while we were broken up that were huge deal breakers, too. We weren’t even speaking when they were happening, but is that a reason for me to justify what I did? I was never aware a heart could actually hurt and I don’t know what to do…

Man o man am I sad. The guy I am seeing will give me an answer next friday about what he wants to do about our relationship. I have already resigned myself to the fact he is going to end it, we have discussed it but I want to be sure he is sure. I just now have to wait seven days, which is really awful. I feel so sad. We havnt been together long (8months)but I feel about him the same way I did about someone I was seeing MUCH longer in the past (5years). He told me he didnt’t love me which I knew, but that doesn’t mean I can stop loving him. It’s so rubbish to love someone who doesn’t love you back. he is questioning whether its time to call it a day as he hasnt fallen for me in 8months, i dnt know what to say to him. I hope I get over this fast because I can’t keep feeling this way. It’s rather rubbish to say the least. Tips welcome lol.

Out of all the women I have dated this one has conquered more of my heart than any other. I have been engaged twice, been in several long-term and serious relationships; but all have paled to this one. Just something about her that just put a smile on my face that I couldn’t get rid of. I don’t know if it was way that she would just pucker her lips when she was happiest most…or the way she would be too stubborn to tell me she needed me more than anything but show it so much in the way she hugged me. I fell in love with her so fast and hard that I knew from the start that I was either going to marry her or never being able to love another like her. All I’m wishing for is for her to just come to me and tell me how much she loves me even now and that she will stop at nothing until we are together. With every passing day I realize more how much I have fallen for her and how sorry I am for hurting her. I can’t take it back, but am willing to spend the rest of my life proving that I can be everything she’s dreamed of.

dont trust nobody but yourself… Dis friend of mine whom i trustd and loved went behind my back nd took the love of my life my bestfriendz all wantd him and had him to az far az i know. i ignore the pain becuz theyre not itz not worth it.. i see it everyday how i change so much itz rediculously insane… i hated my life at a point but that all changed cause aint nuthn wrong with me itz all them…