i just wanna live life. i think that u shouldnt regret doing anything that ever made u happy.
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when a group of old age pensioners where questioned about thier regrets, the most common answer was the regret of not taking more risks! It wasn’t what they did do that they regretted – it was what they DIDN’T do!!
You get one life, many opportunities, but only a limited amount of time – so don’t waste it
Things happen because they are designed to teach you something. Every step you take, positive or not, you will find hurdles in your way, discouraging you, willing you to fail.
Sometimes you give in and do fail.
And other times, you don’t.
But with each passing hurdle, each fall, you are carved into a different person, just like the molten iron which must be beaten before it attains its final beauty and form.
Remember that life was designed to give you that splendour of shape and sinew, and that it could never have been achieved with you making the mistakes you made and realizing them never to make them again.
Regrets come in the way of your will to never make the same mistakes again and if it were for them, you would just end up getting beaten harder and harder, till the ironsmith realises you cannot be carved and throws you away for good.
Moving on will help you make yourself into something and someone that you, yourself can respect, despite the hand of fate or destiny or incidents in making you that person.
everything that happens in life happens for a reason. call it fate, karma, destiny…...whatever.
bottom line, things are what they are and we all need to learn to accept the constant changes in our lives which result from our seemingly small and insignificant actions and decisions.
you have to take the good WITH the bad. you can’t pick and choose, you must play with the hand you are dealt.
live and learn, then get over it. life is too short to dwell over past mistakes and worry about future possiblities. maybe you married the wrong person, chose the wrong career, said the wrong thing to a friend…..whatever. the most important thing is that you realized what you did was WRONG, so now you can learn from it and make your life better. learn from your past mistakes and get on with your life. this is more to life than regretting your past and fixating on things you just can’t (and will never be able to) change.
when we look back on how we lived our lives, made decisions, chose paths to take and realize that we regret doing the things we’ve done, the choices we’ve made and the roads we chose to follow..there should be no room for regrets because everything in our lives happened for a reason..a purpose…all events and choices lead us to where we ought to be..our destiny…so we have no reason at all..to live our lives with regret :)





