I left my husband in 2007.
I have been struggling to get my lawyer to take my case seriously.
Paperwork SHOULD have been done up May 2009. Lawyer told me in August 2009 that he didn’t realize he was required to do it and suggested I do the paperwork myself, despite admiting that since my ex was such a jerk over and over and made things so difficult over and over that I would need a lawyer to complete it.
The agreement all 4 of us had was that MY LAWYER was to do the paperwork.
Still waiting for the papers to be filed. Every contact with my lawyer is that he only needs “one more thing” and then he can file… its been over a month since the last promise and the papers are still unfiled.
I have now had to write to the senior partner above him regarding how he has not treated me or my concerns in a professional or respectful way.
Nov 20, 02:38PM PST | 0 comments
Its been over year, cant it just be over!!
Feb 05, 08:12AM PST | 0 comments
Jan 14, 2009, 06:48PM PST | 0 comments
I had my hearing in the middle of October and the judge signed it off for me and said that it would be final upon entry of judgment on the books. So…I’m just waiting for that letter to come in the mail to tell me that I’m legally single! Woohoo!
Nov 02, 2008, 12:08PM PST | 1 cheer | 0 comments
...and it could be the last step!
Jul 14, 2008, 07:26AM PDT | 0 comments
Thax is trying to keep my head above water
Another one of those things that’s taking too damn long. I finally got off my ass and sent some paperwork to the ex. Now I have to wait for her to fill it out, sign it, get it noterized, and mailed back so I can take it to the judge. It took me months to mail that thing. I’m an idiot.
Jun 26, 2008, 12:00PM PDT | 2 cheers | 2 comments
I filed the final judgment this week. Whew! It took longer than I thought it would and I’m relieved that it’s done. Now I need to press for back child support. Perhaps it will never really be over…
May 30, 2008, 12:25PM PDT | 0 comments
Almost there
19 months ago
One more form to notarize and send to the judge. Then I wait to see if the defendant sends back the form as well. This whole process has taken longer than I thought it would and I just want it over with. I feel divorced, I look divorced, I say I’m divorced (easier that way) so just wish it was official. I’m not involved with anyone so it’s not that—it’s just a status thing I guess.
Apr 17, 2008, 09:12AM PDT | 0 comments
I want my divorce finalize and i don’t have to pay a lot of money.love to have it done in two to three weeks.
Apr 16, 2008, 06:24PM PDT | 0 comments
I have a date for the finalization!! Woo!
Mar 06, 2008, 09:36AM PST | 0 comments
