I am always assuming that compared to other people I have no worth. Time to start realizing my potential!
How to be more self confident
How I did it: Doing what i feared....problem solved itself...
Just push yourself a little...when someone asks you to accompany him/her to a night out...say yes even though you feel like saying no.Take chances, ask if you need help, be polite and see what happens
Lessons & tips: -dont let your fear decide what you want to do, its you who makes the decisions
-set goals for every day like: i will call someone i dont know etc
-tell friends about your aim so they can help you
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bk_toni is living in the moment.
Came up with this.
pretty straight-forward, but it’s good to read.
KayteeKayos ahhh!! I need a tan... I need to go to Sprague..I need a Monster.
I’m really down on myslef all the time. I think I’m ugly and worthless…
i think maybe i’m getting there, I realized that I make fun of myself alot, and maybe that’s a good thing because it shows that i am confident with myself enough to do that. hmm, i don’t know
I was confident child but as ive grown older my self confidence has dropped i think my life would improve alot if i had more confidence.
saishp kolege shit
i know wat i dont want to do but dont know wat i want to do.i ve thousands dreams and i work for none.i am a dreamer, no harm in tat. i know i neded to do a task but m not confident enough for that.
ive tried to help myself by shopping alone, giving a treat to myself, doin wat i feel like to,....but i am still there. like a tide…sometimes it goes so high tat i feel i can win the world and sometimes its the lower side..even i am in deep sea with tat..like m nothing. i think its with everyone of us.life is like this or only mine is like this..
I don’t think it’s so much that I lack self-confidence; moreso, I think I just get frustrated and pissed off. So it’s not that I lack self-confidence in a job; I just do not LIKE working that job. Or, I have not lacked self-confidence in past relationships; rather, I have been unhappy in those relationships and felt stuck. NOT because I lacked the confidence to move on, but because I was either scared or just comfortable in my stagnant state.
Anyway, “more” is so non-specific. Of course I’m in a bad mood today so the mere idea of being considered insufficient by society as a whole just pisses me off that much more. Heh.
mackenziemackenzie is relaxing
Basically, everyone feels insecure at some point in their lives. Some people feel the sting more often than others. But being ‘self-confident’ is just about showing your real self as much as possible-people will love you for it.
a really helpful book was Succulent Wild Woman by Sark
I am constantly amazed at the confidence some people possess, even though they don’t seem to be any better at their job, better looking, slimmer, sexier, smarter than me! Who’s right, them or me? Maybe I have delusions of being better than I am, or else I’m a complete wimp.


