check out and join some helpful groups

joined sparkpeople.com but not sure if it is that great. it is for weightloss.
there seems to be some bullies on there so I had to change my name a few times already!

http://forums.catholic.com/index.php

this is a good forum if you are Catholic or have questions about Catholicism. i have never felt so supported with prayer by people I only met yesterday(online).
it has helped me immensely with a situation.

ok i am getting offline now, to go do stuff that means i love myself. tempted to go into the work online forum and getting up instead!@

i also need to quit the groups that are not helpful or draining.
there is a work forum that I take time to read and post in. I usually regret posting in there, so from now on I will report a day of no posting in the work forum. those people usually are a drain and are bullies at times.
who needs that.
perhaps i do not need to even read it daily…
perhaps try taking a break from now till the weekend.
it is a drain!!!
instead, i need to work on my thank you notes. big time.
I not only am quitting certain groups and forums, but also deleting my posts from their archives. made me feel better.

it might mean some groups in my town, church, or online.
I am not really in any groups that enhance my life… it seems the kids have girl scouts and 4H, which are hard to keep up with even for them.
I might check into the book club at church, but since i have to move and work, I seem to maybe only be able to do the online thing.
I found some catholic mom sites, and maybe can get support there. I work with mainly a lot of people who do not like anything to do with religion, and it shouldnt matter, but since I cannot talk about things that matter to me there, then it will bev a good outlet I think to have some online moms who believe the same stuff.