I don’t know what to do with my life. I have a great work, married to a great guy. But I’m not sure what this whole life thing is all about.
More precisely I don’t know who I am, or what I want, or any of this.
I’m desperate…
I don’t know what to do with my life. I have a great work, married to a great guy. But I’m not sure what this whole life thing is all about.
More precisely I don’t know who I am, or what I want, or any of this.
I’m desperate…
Hi, my name is RenĂ©. I change my mind every half year. I can’t do anything about it. I wanted to be businessman, singer, etc. Now I want to be movie director, but I don’t feel that it’s real thing for me. I want to do this, but I’m worried about that I can change my mind again. How can I find my true GOAL of life? All I realy know is that I want to work in show business. Maybe I shoud stay with this goal and exclude all other goals. I really don’t know what to do and it’s sad. Can you give me some advice?
To ask myself who I am is simply to ambiguous to me. I find myself defeating things and asking things. I don’t understand. I foster this numbing confusion and break even with my own questions. I’m not sure.
Cosmic_Light youll never get out, coz you were never alive..
Well Ive been wondering for a long time now who I am. Its difficult to justify what spurred this on but the fact of the matter is, this needs to be done. I am confused on where the hell Im going and this may help me at least place footsteps to reach whatever goal I want to percieve.
Ever since I was little I’ve always wanted to be like someone else. “That really pretty girl in my class”, “that perfect celebrity”, “that shiny supermodel”, I’ve never actually been content about who I am.
I’ve had a good deal of experience’s in my life, living in a foreign country and learning another language, moving to a number of different schools and having to settle in completely different environments and a few negative ones such as being bullied for a number of years, struggling to deal with an eating disorder, etc… but I have learned from and overcome all of them and in a way they have made me a better and stronger person. I’m now 15 and about to embark the biggest journey of my life – GCSE’s, further education and then on to a career. My goals are set and most people are raving about my academic achievements. I’m ready to follow the path of becoming a great and successful individual.
Only, there’s one thing missing. I have a caring and loving family, I don’t have any colossal problems to stress me out and I have a very wide circle of friends; with some particularly close ones to share my feelings with. But I don’t know who I am. This may well be a question that some (particularly older people) would answer with “you’ll learn in time” but I want to know now! How can I go on to be this successful individual if I don’t even know who the person staring at me in the mirror is? This isn’t just a question of curiosity but a necessity! It’s eating away at me and I need to know the answer.
I recently came out of what some people would describe as a “gothic” phase, and have completely changed the way I dress. But I never feel like I’m actually being me. Afterall, the way we dress is supposed to reflect our personality. But how can I reflect my personality when I don’t know what it’s like?! How do I discover who I really am?
I want to be more confident in myself when I make decisions. I want to know that what I’m doing is what I really want and not just influences from the people around me. I want to know that when it comes to big things, like if I really like a guy or what type of career do I really want to go into for the rest of my life, that it is truly what I want!
I want to know who I reall am. I was just reading an excerpt from a book that said that some things are easier if you are comfortable with who you are. But who am I? And how do I find out who I am and what made me the way I am.