support my husband in reaching his goals, too!

It seems like his long-term goals have been put on the sidelines since we enlarged our family with our very welcome addition – our daughter Emma. He has become more preoccupied with providing for our financial needs, putting his studies on hold to be able to work more hours… while I work less hours and stay with her as her primary caretaker. I am not sure how we will make our goals (as individuals and as a family) work out financially but there has got to be a way!!!! I am keen on supporting him fully and cheering him on along the way… sometime even nagging him to make sure he does not forget that there is change ahead if he decides to reach for it!

I think we had a breakthrough this past month! That’s exciting, because my life adn future goals, family plans become clearer.

I think we’ve decided that in a few years we will both move back to the states and pursue Master’s degrees together.
I’m getting excited to be a student. I think it will be soo enjoyable for us both to be students again.

He is moving onto the next step for his goal. Go for it!

While I don’t approve of unequal power in relationships and constantly reemphasize the mutual responsability and commitment and effort in marriage,
it comes natural to fight, pursue what I want and need. It’s typically in the moments of need, when a romanticly inspired gusto pushed me to forget about what I was hoping to get out of this day.
So, I’m going to recognize that I need to go against what is so natural for me.
p.s. I love this photo

This is more than just the very apparent goals, but also those heart level dreams. I think those can be the hardest to support…
I also sometimes get frustrated in the process… I’ve only focused on my goals and dreams up until now.
And then my counterargument would be that I’m thankful for this journey… and that it’s more than just those acheivement goals, but also about self-improvement goals he has, and the long time dreams, that often reflect some of our true values and passions.
hmm… from the life partnership adventure perspective, I know it’s very worth it to take this seriously.

This is much harder than I anticipated.. He’s still not my husband but damn is he demanding. His goal is to attend BMW and let me support him while he goes. But he doesn’t want to work before it starts in September. But in the end, the roles will be reversed… And I can take it easier rather than stressing out over my crappy job that I can’t get rid of because I have to take care of our home. Not to mention his unexplainable desire for his expensive toys (cars)...

My fiance’ is going to go to BMW Technician Training here in upcoming March, and I will have to cover his bills because he will no longer be working. With rent and utilities, phone, gasoline, car payment(s), and food, it will be a very tough 7 months. But I will make sure he gets through it successfully, without worrying, because I love him more than anything in this world.

I always tell him he is my hero and I am his biggest fan. He is an amazing man, person, human and I am luck to know him. I work beside him each day and want to do my best to support him in his goals.

Matt recently registered for classes he needs to take the CPA exam. I couldn’t be happier!