find someone to love me

love

Everyone says I’m still young, and that there’s someone out there for everyone, but….that doesn’t change the fact that I wish I had someone to love, and in turn, be loved by.

i like chat and create relation ship with her

Magic Man wrote such the perfect piece on this. I cannot describe it any better. Too bad he is from Arkansas- that’s so far away…

i found that you have to be the real you. no one else. tell them everything right off the bat about you, about why your single everything. and if they cant accept your past, then they will never love you. i am lucky because my man does love me no matter what i did in the past, and loves me for who i am. its a great feeling

Wanted: Woman to Love
1 woman to share future with…must be willing to let go of past relationships with men (dads don’t count)
Must be willing to be loved and love back…willing to be held when upset or sometimes just because.
Must be willing to lean on me when I am a Rock…and not look down on me when I’m not that Rock
but encourage me and believe in me until I can once again become the man I truly am inside me.
Must be willing to trust in love…no matter what…must believe in true love…must have hope…must be
willing to trust her heart and not listen to bullshit lies told by others…must be willing stand side by side
and run together through life. Must have dreams and not be willing to give up on them or on love for
convienience or a more managable life. Must be willing to stand against adversity hand in mine and fight
for a better life and future. Must be willing to trust and be vulnerable. Must not take advantage of my
vulnerabilities or weaknesses…must be willing to share responsibilities and happiness…must love art
music, and chick flix…must believe in making love for hours and willing to accept a selfless lover…must
be willing to be healed by my touch day after day and be held for hours at a time. Must be willing to sit
up listening to beautiful music drinking bourbon and discussing the beauty and power of said music and
be melted by the blue in my eyes…must be willing to be picked up and carried to bed and cuddled for
hours on end. Must be willing to have her cheeks caressed and her neck kissed gently…allowing ear
nibbling a plus. Must be willing to let me do special things for her…and willing to wear my jewelry
when the time is right…must be willing to commit to long term relationship…must be willing to be sung
to on a regular basis and willing to sing back for me…must be willing to be carried when not strong
enough to stand on her own…must be high maintenance and expect to be treated special. Must be
understanding when I screw up and make mistakes…must understand human imperfection and not hold it
against me…Must be understanding when I act jealous and willing to not get mad…just grab my neck and
reassure me in my insecurities and tell me how much she loves me…must trust in my judgement and not
assume my advice is self-serving…must understand that it’s ok to be dependent on me for love…strength..
reassurance…and hope…must be willing to be proud of me no matter my station or current employment…
Even if it’s fast food…must be patient as I work to achieve our dreams even if that means only being able
to go to WalMart once a week for neccessities. Must be willing to take long showers together and spend
a lot of time with me in a jaccuzzi making love…must not be so caught up in popularity or fantastic
delusions of grandeur to the point our relationship suffers…our relationship must come first…must be
willing to work at a relationship not just expect it to carry itself. Must be honest and sincere to me as
as well as to yourself…completely…and not be afraid to tell me the truth for fear of upsetting me… no
matter how serious the circumstance…or how much you think it will upset me in the short or long
run…and trust that no matter how bad it is…it won’t change my opinion about you or change the fact
that I love you. Must be willing to be loved unconditionally. Must be willing to hire a babysitter on
occasion to spend some quality time together enjoying each others company…and the occasional concert.
Must be willing to have friends together and willing to go spend a night on the town with the girls every
now and then. Must be trustworthy and willing to remove yourself from a situation where circumstances
may call for a bad choice to be made…and if somehow placed in those circumstances…be willing to make
the right decision and not give in to temptation no matter how intoxicated or excited…must be faithful.
Must not be vindictive or hateful…must love life and all the beauty in it. Must be monogomous and be
okay with it. I am an attentive lover and will always make sure you get yours…even if I do not…and I
make Rudolph Valentino and Don Juan turn in their graves in envy at what I can do with a woman. You
just can’t fake that shit. Past not considered…I don’t want your past…(children okay though)...I want your
future…I plan on living a long beautiful life and want to share it with a like-minded woman. Neurocies
ok…I have a lot of patience…must not have hangups about whether or not you are beautiful however
...must be happy with who you are. Must be willing to be melted like butta…by my touch or whisper or
even a look…Must love children(I have 4) and understand that I have obligations as a father. Must be
willing to love them and be loved by them. Must be willing to lay in bed sometimes and let me cook
breakfast…or sit on your ass and relax while I make dinner. Must be willing to rest your head on my
chest while we sleep…or sometimes just because. Must be willing to call certain music “our’s” and be
willing to tell everyone you know how much we mean to each other. Must be willing to shout it out loud
in a crowd full of people and not worry about what others might think. Must be willing to act as hostess
to my host with our friends and family. Must act professionally when neccessary and have dignity and
self-respect. Must be able to hold hands proudly in public and not get upset if I feel the need to kiss you
out in said public. Must be able and willing to learn and grow with me in all aspects of life…
emotionally… spiritually…etc. Must be open to the idea of going to church and committing to a life of
spiritual growth. Must be able and willing to talk intellectually for hours about all matters and willing to
keep communication lines between us open even if we are in a state of disagreement. Must be willing to
lay it all on the table and face any problems we may face…even tough ones…and be willing to listen to
suggestions no matter how lame they may seem and not make me feel stupid for suggesting them… Must
be willing to help me through my problems in life and allow me to help you with yours…no: my problem
– your problem….must be willing for them to be our problems. Must be willing to face problems head on
hand in hand and not try to avoid them or run away from them. Must be patient with me and my
shortcomings…willing to cut us both some slack… Must be willing above all else to let herself be happy.
Must be willing to use my own magic on me when I am broken to heal me…will train. Must believe in
true love…and fate…must be my soul mate….others need not apply. I patiently and excitedly await your
call…I have been waiting all my life for you…and I’ll never give up on you…or us….......so call me….I’m
patiently awaiting your response.

your soul mate…..........MagicMan

He is definitely something else.

I ask myself this question everyday. It has almost become a daily beating for me. I have been divorced for 5 years and have yet to meet anyone to go out with. I have tried all dating sites known to man and only encountered very dishonest people. They are either out for someone to support them, or they are just looking for one night stands, and worst case is, they are married or have a live in partner.

I noticed on match.com that more than 200 people had viewed my profile and that is as far as it went. Those I tried to contact ignored me. What is wrong with me? I do have a few extra pounds on me but damn. I did not think I was to the point of being revolting. I feel so down and bad about myself. I just don’t understand the problem.

god will be the one to love us.

I’ve been looking for what seems like forever for someone that will fill the emptiness that my heart feels. I have run out of places to look. Some say…
It will come to you or you have to go out and look for it.
Well, I’ve tried so many ways but nothing seems to happen. I’m not perfect but I have a good heart with lot’s of love and affection to give. Sometimes that’s just not good enough.