I just got rejected on 3 progressively lesser levels. I’d be so upset that and afraid I’d lose her forever that I settled for a lesser level of involvement/intimacy, and everything went well for days… Until she suddenly cut me off, with total silence, until I forced her to respond. Then she ordered me to step back even further. Weird, huh? Nuts, crazy, insane are words to describe her AND the situation. And I’m supposed to keep trying? I don’t think so! 3 months ago

There’s only one way to learn.I’ve never put my self out there.I never risked my pride.I never did a lot of things.
But it’s time.I want to look someone in the eye and say “I really like you” and have them say no to me.Sure it might hurt at first,but I’ll get over it.And one day I’ll be able to look back and think,”Huh,at least I know” instead of always going back to what if.
So I’m gonna tell people what I think.I’m going to ask crushes how they feel.I’m going to get regected!
I’m going to learn. 3 months ago

It’s a really silly goal! I laughed when I saw it, and thus, decided to add it to my list. I really can’t recommend aiming for rejection, though. (It’s simply too easy to achieve.) 7 months ago

it wasn’t really a goal. I wanted to be there for someone and I tried to make a friend. It didn’t work and it hurt. 10 months ago

So I’ve had a few small rejections but I don’t feel they are enough. My biggest fear of rejection I’d guess is someone not liking me. Like trying to talk to someone and they don’t wanna talk to me. Like, trying something new and not doing “good enough.” Well that happened with the youtube vid. But my biggest rejection involves a person not liking me. I need to put myself out there more.

I’m still not ready to cross this off. 2 years ago