stop caring about what other people think

I know ultimately I don’t care what people think, but in the heat of the moment, I let others take over my mind. This stops today!

Other people would probably disagree that I’ve done this. I really have tried to separate myself from others opinions. This includes gossip or trying to keep up with people.

Houses, cars, clothes, vacations, even private islands and Gulfstream jets are all just things. You can lose them, they can be destroyed. Many is the person who you thought had the world licked who ended up killing themselves. If you get to be OK with yourself, it won’t really matter what anyone else thinks. Anyone.

i’m moving and when I do i waana totally have no inhibitions and not care AT ALL about other ppl i wanna put i all out there

I think caring about others’ opinions is the biggest obstacle preventing me getting the life of my dreams and being comfortable in my own skin

I’ve got way too many goals I’ve trying to achieve and am too jaded from past heartbreak right now to give a damn about much, much less what others think of me.

Sure, it’ll cross my mind, I’m sure. Not nearly as often as it used to in my more insecure days.

The thing is whether or not you let it affect your decisions, actions, and reactions.

the reason i care about this so much is im hyper-sensative
...I really am, my councellor says that if i can reduce my guilt and anxiety then i will stop being so sensative, and then i dont supose i will care about whta people say…
so this one is in reach?
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this still gets me down, i get motivated some days, and think oh fuck them!
but when people spread rumours and shit about me, it does get to me… I really really wish it didnt. I am sick at the moment of people talking about me all the time… people i dont even talk to talking about me… then asking me if this or that is true… i am not an extrovert, not really… so i dont see why people are talking about me…
one day though i will stop caring, i wont blink an eyelid at whatever whoever is telling whoever ive done next, one day i will just laugh it off, and not give a damn…
i supose its juts not that easy though…
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I want to be me, without caring too much about what people think, and just wear, say(without being mean), and do what I want. Hopefully this will make me happier:)

With that low self-confidence I have I don’t think I’ll ever get there. I have all the reasons to think I can accomplish whatever I want (within reasonable bounds) but the thing is every time I start to do something, people’s opinion scares me off, the idea of looking silly, absurd hampers me. I care about what other people think in just about everything, the way I look: hairstyle, clothes etc, my behavior, everything…I know I will not get anywhere with such a catastrophic lack of confidence. I think I need someone to sometimes praise my work, to just tell me I am doing good. But I am not talking about blind flattery, cause it does not usually work…not with intelligent people. I do crave for sincere appreciation and the recognition of my true worth. My elder sister is my exact contrast, never cares about what people say, and I must admit, it makes her life much easier, I REALLY DO wish I could learn not to care about people’s opinion, but right now it seems so difficult.
If I solve this problem, my life will become so much easier.

I used to care about racial and sexual equality among other things. Now I care about nothing unless it involves my family or my job. If you’re not useful to me than your no better than a stranger. I used to care about being nearly friendless, but now my wife is my only friend. I feel that any platonic friend is a possible back stabber who would use my weaknesses for their own needs. So to hell with everyone.