Yeah, I can’t and will not forget her in this birth or the next..
I will remember her as I my first and the last love..she will be there till my last breath in my heart..forever…
although she was once inerested and luved me..but the equations have changed ever since she joined the corporate world as a professional in one giant company in India…
I always thought that she is wrong but when I see from her specs/view..I think in one or the other may be she is not right but at the same time she is not completely wrong….
its her perspective/view about me which got changed after she joined the corporate ladder…but I know somewhere she also likes me in a corner,deep of her heart…but then..the vacant volume is still there to be filled in her heart…and guess what she filled it with some rich guy…although even i am not poor & i do belongs to a wealthy family…but then it is what we call fate..
I pray everyday for her good life but at the same time i will never love or tend to get marry any other girl in this life…as i cant forget her and also i dont want to forget her…
I will make her memories as the reason to survive/live…i will and i do love her allways…what if we were not have any relationship of togetherness as a marriage, but the memories are allways with me deep in my heart..
So, at the end what i want to say is that;
i read a lot negative comments from guys and gals over here;they all were trying hard to forget there love…but i m surprised how they can forget there real love…love is a feeling and not the substance, which u can forget…u can forget that girl/boy but not the feeling of love…
so, at the end my message is …remember/memorize ur love(eventhough she/he left u) in such a way that it can become the reason for survive or life in this birth..
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 "Months and months of work. At first talking to friends, then reading a lot on practical stuff to do to refocus my life."
How I did it: Talking always helps, especially to close friends. Starting to change shared habits and routines. Then moving onto redeiscovering the things that I liked and thus living my life how I wanted without her. Always keep in mind that you're stronger than you realize and it there is always a way through, it takes time and hard work. Lessons & tips: Looks for self help books that appeal to your particular ways of dealing with problems. For me it was those with practical excercises more than just spiritual advice. Resources: Counselling did a lot of good, but reading books like "I can mend your broken heart" which has lots of practical excercises gave something to keep my mind busy outside work. |
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Yeah, I can’t and will not forget her in this birth or the next..
I will remember her as I my first and the last love..she will be there till my last breath in my heart..forever…
although she was once inerested and luved me..but the equations have changed ever since she joined the corporate world as a professional in one giant company in India…
I always thought that she is wrong but when I see from her specs/view..I think in one or the other may be she is not right but at the same time she is not completely wrong….
its her perspective/view about me which got changed after she joined the corporate ladder…but I know somewhere she also likes me in a corner,deep of her heart…but then..the vacant volume is still there to be filled in her heart…and guess what she filled it with some rich guy…although even i am not poor & i do belongs to a wealthy family…but then it is what we call fate..
I pray everyday for her good life but at the same time i will never love or tend to get marry any other girl in this life…as i cant forget her and also i dont want to forget her…
I will make her memories as the reason to survive/live…i will and i do love her allways…what if we were not have any relationship of togetherness as a marriage, but the memories are allways with me deep in my heart..
So, at the end what i want to say is that;
i read a lot negative comments from guys and gals over here;they all were trying hard to forget there love…but i m surprised how they can forget there real love…love is a feeling and not the substance, which u can forget…u can forget that girl/boy but not the feeling of love…
so, at the end my message is …remember/memorize ur love(eventhough she/he left u) in such a way that it can become the reason for survive or life in this birth..
Yeah, I can’t and will not forget her in this birth or the next..
I will remember her as I my first and the last love..she will be there till my last breath in my heart..forever…
although she was once inerested and luved me..but the equations have changed ever since she joined the corporate world as a professional in one giant company in India…
I always thought that she is wrong but when I see from her specs/view..I think in one or the other may be she is not right but at the same time she is not completely wrong….
its her perspective/view about me which got changed after she joined the corporate ladder…but I know somewhere she also likes me in a corner,deep of her heart…but then..the vacant volume is still there to be filled in her heart…and guess what she filled it with some rich guy…although even i am not poor & i do belongs to a wealthy family…but then it is what we call fate..
I pray everyday for her good life but at the same time i will never love or tend to get marry any other girl in this life…as i cant forget her and also i dont want to forget her…
I will make her memories as the reason to survive/live…i will and i do love her allways…what if we were not have any relationship of togetherness as a marriage, but the memories are allways with me deep in my heart..
So, at the end what i want to say is that;
i read a lot negative comments from guys and gals over here;they all were trying hard to forget there love…but i m surprised how they can forget there real love…love is a feeling and not the substance, which u can forget…u can forget that girl/boy but not the feeling of love…
so, at the end my message is …remember/memorize ur love(eventhough she/he left u) in such a way that it can become the reason for survive or life in this birth..
naztec is pensive
I am afraid that she will completely stop loving me one day. Although we not together, there is love. 15 years dont just dissolve in 6 months.
I am devastated and want to be myself again, feel i have a lost part of me. I want to move on. Feel good inside. Do things without having her thoughts lurking in the dep recess of my mind…all the time.
I feel sick. I have to motivate myself. Stop drinking so much and hurting myself. I need to get my mojo back!
I dont know how i will forget her if i keep writing entries about her. I will be reminded of her again next week. Guys never, i mean never, dear to agree on working in the same space with a beautiful, intelligent, sexy, powerful woman. U WILL fall for her and if she already is with another guy, way more powerful than you and is preparing babies with him, then u get the picture. I need to start a new life. I need to see things differently from another perspective and possibly get far away from that woman.
i love her a lot but i could not talk to her these days i see her with another person, i think all of my dreams have faded!!!!
Addills getting ready for junior year of college
It’s sad I have to make this a goal for myself after the wonderful relationship we had together. She moved out of town for college and became too busy for me with new people and new things. I wish I had moved out of town too. Everything here, the streets, the people, and countless other things remind me of her. I will probably never see her again in my life. And if I did it wouldn’t be long enough of a time to fix things.
hi
we had a strong relationship since last 2 years.she was mad about me as i was.we planned to marry but our cast were diff. somehow we convinced our parents and things started moving , we got engaged officially .meanwhile i should tell something important
1- my father wanted to do this marriage by orthhodox means along with all the rituals and adding and inviting all family members and he is short tempered , he expected a arranged come love marriage
2- my mohter inlaw the worlds most egoiestic person ,wanted equal space in honour and diginity didnt want to feel she is marrying her daughter and guy side must listen her in everything and do according to her.
now we were happy that how how we are getting near to our marriage .i m in business , usa domain business so i have to wrk in night as i live in india .her mother was used to creat problems and she was used to discuss me in my business hrs i told her several times not to discuss when i m in office but she kept on doing same thing, second thing whenever she pointeed out anything wrong i took favour my parents ( they were not very much wrong thier sense was to sattle everything according to socaiety rules). she has been told to follow the normal homely rules like taking blessing from parents and relatives and traditional waering in respect of dresses she said she cant do much of these things and this was a kindda of conflict and she wanted to get releaved from all these rules , i conviced her after marriage gradually everything will be okay . meanwhile 6 months we had contineous fights on these lil issues but one night i was in my office and she called me n discussed the same problem and i got very frustrated and said her if u dont want to marry plz dont , i took it easy coz fighting were quuite normal and was quite lil infront of great love we had .i called her mom and told the same thing ( i think the most silly thing i have done). her family suddenly changed the entire pic and took off the marriage , my whole family tried to convince her mother and to her also but they denied . she said i have broken her trust — the most killing stuff fr me … i cant live with her this statement 2 years i did everything fr her ( except listing anf favouring her against my parents). i loved her so deepely i cant tell . now she says she doesnt have any more space fr me in her heart how it can be , if a lil pain i flet she bacem mad and got run to meet me , she was damn crazy about me , and moreover we married unofficially , she took me as a husband since one year though we were living in our families .. howwzz that what happned .. she cant come back as he rmother said if she goes back she will think that her daughter has died fr her … now she talks very normally perhaps nothing has happned n opposite i m nt able to breath even without her …. she says i have broken her trust we were jsut behind 5 days to our marriage .. trust me i did everything her but…. help me to get out from this i will be highly obliged
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georgekmathew asks,
“how can i control my feelings for my wife.It gets way too profound and when i see no reponse from her, i get mentally down.I need to move on.I have discussed this with her , but she says she doest feel even a pinch as what i feel. I need to move on!!!”
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chigga638 asks,
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