kissingconcrete Just cleaned my room!!! GOAL ACHIEVED
Tried and failed.
6 months ago
Yup. Failed this time. Better luck next time =(
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How to have an orgasm
It made me
 "My then-boyfriend gave me a vibrator for one of my birthdays."
How I did it: Practice makes perfect... I've never experienced this with someone else, all solo, because I'm pretty much the only one who knows exactly which area to pay attention to and stuff. I feel kind of weird typing this on here, but I wish someone else would have given me advice about this when I first started trying to experience it. Lessons & tips: Purchase a sex toy. Resources: Vibrators.
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kissingconcrete Just cleaned my room!!! GOAL ACHIEVED
Trying tonight!
6 months ago
I have never had one in my life. But tonight I’m going to try with my boyfriend. Apparently the key is to relax…I’m going to light candles and put my favourite music on and see what happens! Wish me luck!!
Untitled
7 months ago
I don’t mind that much that I’ve never had one… but my partner really does.
I don’t know why its so difficult :(
eMJerk jumps and jives.
Oh dear.
7 months ago
Well. I stopped taking the medication that was causing my sex drive to disappear. I bought a vibrator (online, discreetly) and though I haven’t made any headway with it yet, I’ve got to admit, it’s better than without. Also, my boyfriend and I broke up and I ended up in bed with a good friend of mine… and wow. Closer than I’ve ever been.
Why is this so hard for me?!
7 months ago
I think I might need to give a vibrator a try…?
Sex feels absolutely amazing (I feel so close to my boyfriend, I’ve had my legs tremble, I’ve gotten short of breath, I’ve gone CRAZY! etc) but I never actually have an orgasm – which is my fault because I have never had an orgasm by myself either, and they say you should know how to give yourself one before you can have one with a partner. I don’t know… Why does something that is said to be so amazing, something that is hard for me?! It’s supposed to be natural! I feel like something is wrong with me and that makes me really sad.
Should I talk to my gyno about this?
eMJerk jumps and jives.
A step backwards?
9 months ago
I’m on a new medication for depression, and I think it’s significantly decreased my overall desire for sex in the first place. Hmm.
B2kishot87 Ugh
I wanna know what heaven feels like
10 months ago
Well I’m 21. Never had one….Not by myself or with anyone. To make matters worse my pink toy broke!!. I need to get another one. And try not to give up hope. I feel kinda bad now on 43things and I hear all these other girls some younger then me. Have had at least had one in their lifetime. This isnt fair. I dont know it just seems like something thats not so easy for me to come by. I mean I’m comfortable with myself, partner, I’m pretty freaking relaxed….What could it be!!!! Trying to take everyones opinons on how to achieve this goal. Wanna try new things. My partner is aware of my issue….UGH
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I'm switching this goal
12 months ago
from ‘buy a vibrator’ to ‘have an orgasm’ since that’s why I am interested in a vibrator… makes sense.
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12 months ago
And a little bit sad, I’ve never had the ‘big O’ and it’s been suggested to me a number of times to try a vibrator, so it’s on my list!
I’ll get around to it eventually… haha.
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