be a better boyfriend

i need help please :(
i have been going out with my girlfriend for near 7 months
we r both 16
i try my best to be a good boyfriend but my best is not good enuf
i really love her and i would do anything for her
would even die for her
i think she is going to slit up with me soon but i dont know how i am going to take it , i just want to stay with her
money is nothing to me , she is the world to me , i dont have any friends so i need someone to tell me how to be a better boyfriend so that maybe i might be able to keep her ,
thank u for reading this

self explanatory really, give more to get more in return.

i dont want to fuck up… I have the greatest girl anyone could ask for and though i know this i do not show it enough… weve been dating for about a year now… well actually a year lol… we havent had sex… nor has she come over once lol but thats all cool lol… but i fucked up so bad with her… wow… i made so many mistakes… we are in love… but lately it seems like she isnt that into me… or us… and i blame it mainly on me not being there enough for her… shes my fucking life… and all i do is dream about her… i wake up early every morning and look at a picture of her for an hour or so… she may not seem to eb a perfect match to me… but she’s an angel in disguise… she is my whole world… and i want to be a better boyfriend to her… i want her to trust me again… i want her to know so badly that im doing everything i can to make her life easier… her life isnt that easy to begin with… she self injurs and i have bulimia… but i wont give up on her ever… i will fuck it lol… i just have to be a better boyfriend to her… she is my life, and my stars… she’s my Arsqueaka… and i’ll do anything to see her oh so cute nose crinkle when she smiles… i love my Arsqueaka!

I have been with my girlfriend for a while we have a kid and live together, thru many fights, talks, and love sessions….lol i know that i can be a more understanding boyfriend. she does a lot for me and our son. I must admit that a lot of the times i feel like she is too good for me, yet i do not have patience for some of her flaws. i guess the point of this rant is to get some ideas on how to be more patient and accepting. otherwise i will have to go on medication!!! lol

My girlfriend is the most beautiful person in the world, both inside and out. My plight is a combination of chrisjl182 and cuhcaw01. When we argue I always treat it as some sort of competition which I have to win. Its not a competition, its about working through the issue together. When we argue, I do most of the talking, and I talk at her, not to her. I dont listen properly to what she is saying, I just wait for my turn to speak. When we are out in public together, I do things without thinking how they are going to affect my girlfriend or how it might make her feel, and sometimes, often, I hurt her by doing such things. When we do have a conflict out in public, I make a huge deal of it and make it all about me, selfishly. I blow things out of proportion and refuse to follow the Boyfriend 101 lessons of always looking after their partner and caring for them no matter what we may be going through at the time. I love her so much and I want to be a better boyfriend, and I will be.

Self explanatory.

I have the greatest girl anyone could ask for and though i know this i do not show it. When we first got together over eight years ago I was the best b/f she could have those were her words. Now it seems I have lost touch with myself and have no clue how to be me again. I make this great girl feel insignificant though it is not intentional it is easy to avoid and yet I don’t. She is on the verge of leaving me and I truly dont know how to stop it. I remember how i used to be but find it very difficult to do. I try to do these things that women love so much but it makes me feel akward and less of a man. I really hope I can figure out how to fix this and what caused me to become the arsehole i am today. She deserves much better then this and frankly if i cant give her the love, time and support she needs I am being selfish by continuing to stay with her and keep making these empty promises.

i have been with my girl friend of 4 years an damn things have changed she is such a sweet heart she has been so verry good 2 me we had a child after 2 years en that has been great i used to be a real ass hole i never showed her the same love that she has showed me i realy dident like dooing things with her it was almost like i just had her around 4 some thing to poke on en talk 2 when i had no one else around i have made her feal like shit the past few years….. But now i look back at all the thing i have done an realy wished i could have done things difretly i feal like the tables r turend en now she is me when we started going out idont know i just want to prove to her that im a good man im 27 years old en i want 2 make good mories im not geting any younger an im realy fealing like we r falling apart what the hell do i do….from the dick head.

I have just realized I had a 43t account so i thought I would come and see what has changed. Since I last used it my girlfriend and I have split up (she dumped me!) so I thought I would share my thoughts in hindseight on how to be a better boyfriend.

Things started to go wrong in September. She was starting off at university and I was helping with the welcome week at my university (helping freshers get into the swing of uni life). Unfortunately this meant I wasn’t there for her. The people she was living with all knew each other and didn’t take any effort to try and get to know her. She felt alone, she needed someone, she needed me but I wasn’t there. She ended up getting rather close to another one of our friends (the guy she is with now).

After this things just weren’t the same between us. We always seemed to be getting each other upset. It didn’t really help that we didn’t tell each other our true feelings. Anyway, a few weeks later she said she wanted to go on a break…

All of my friends here at uni said that I should forget about her and move on – can I just say that this is the worse advice to give! We tried to stay friends but things just weren’t the same, we kept getting each upset still. We needed some proper time apart. I now know that what she really wanted was for me to go and say I love her. To tell her I was stupid and that I wanted her to take me back. I wanted to too, but I took the advice not to.

I hope this helps someone to not make the mistake as me. I have now got to ‘make up with my ex’. In summary:
- If she needs you be there, no matter what anyone tells you
- If she says she wants to go on a break then let her settle for a few days. You will both feel really bad and need some time to be alone. Remember why you need each other and then go and meet her. Tell her why you need her, tell her you love her and appologise for letting your relationship getting like this (even if it isn’t your fault!)

I have tried my hardest at this goal and have failed miserably. About a month and 1/2 ago my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years and I broke up. He already has a new boyfriend too. Which is awsome. I am heart broken, of course. But am slowly beginning to date and feel what it’s like to be single. It’s strange but awsome.