Enjoy unmarried life for as long as it lasts, giving the look of death to anyone who refers to unmarried women as old maids or spinsters. Oh, and I like cats. So deal with it.

I want to live alone.

...has been ‘borrowed’ from a couple of other people – thank you! I just love the whole concept! I am enjoying being single and it will last as long as it is meant to – I’m not just settling for any guy for the sake of being married and not on my own! I have spent most of my adult life either married or with a partner and now this is my ME time! When that special someone is meant to come into my life, then he will show up, but for now I am going to enjoy my unmarried life!

Miss Kiki created this goal, I cheered it once and tried to again when I got the message “You have already cheered this goal”. That is when I decided to add this to my list. I hope being married once does not eliminate me from this goal. Isn’t a “spinster” or an “old maid” someone that never married? Well, on my + years on this earth, I only spent 4 of them being a married person. Besides, Barbara told me to add another goal that she hadn’t cheered yet.

Oh yes, and I have two cats, Mikey that showed up at my doorstep 11 years ago and then there is Ozzy, I adopted him when my son died nearly nine years ago.

Call me what you want!!!

changed the wording of the goal slightly.

Ok, since Christmas and New Year’s is over it’s time for Valentine’s Day, the time of year hardest on singles (women in particular). It’s hard to escape the constant barrage of tv, radio, and newspaper ads and general idea that if you aren’t attached to that special someone to buy you diamonds, flowers, longerie or a fancy dinner (which as a silly female you need to prove that someone loves you or else – but that’s a whole different rant), there’s something wrong.