not care about what others think of me

i am the only one i really matter to.

me and maybe my kitties

true that to the person below me

it’s very hard really very hard

There are so many people in this world who worry about what others think of them. They are too many. And they worry too much. They can’t stop wondering what other people think of them and they try to create an image that others will like even though that is not really reflective of who they are.

They never make a decision without someones approval and they take the slightest comment or mean thing they hear around them personally and feel miserable..

When in fact, nobody really cares. Nobody! People don’t care about other people, they are way to busy thinking about themselves. Their life. Their happiness. Their problems. Their feelings. It’s how are brain works. Empathy, as the ability to “put oneself into another’s shoes”, is a poor competitor with our huge amount of self-directed thoughts.

Build a stronger self confidence. Fight for it. Nobody is perfect so forget your flaws and concentrate on your successes. Take pride, be thankful and positive. Form your principles and stick to them. Finally, live your life your way.

no it’s hard for me
i am only a little girl

It’s good to worry a little bit what people think of you, while reserving the right to ignore their opinion.

Who are Others and why should we be concerned with what they think? If your “others” are your family and friends, then maybe you should distance yourself from your family and realize that those others are not your friends if they cannot see that you are not happy. Be happy being yourself. See what is unique about you, spend time with yourself, getting to know you. Being different from the “others” is to be celebrated! Dress different, they way you want, experience being different, it may stick or be short lived. Just do it and care what YOU think about yourself. Self esteem is so fragile, but we are so strong. No one can take certain things away from you and the number one on that list is SELF RESPECT. Look at yourself from the outside. Do you like what you see? Not just physically, that is just window dressing, but who you are, what you aspire to be, your creative direction. A great teaching experiment is to find someone like yourself who is unsure if he/she cares what others think of them and explore the possibilities of being free of the big O. (Opinion) Quite simply put, Opinions are like asses, everybody has one, so what? I’ll bet I like you already, and even if I don’t maybe it is because I am superficial and ignorant to see the real you, the deep down person inside. And if human being A is not sensitive and caring enough to want to get to know human being B’s deep down person inside, maybe they aren’t worth knowing. You can do it!

whatever i say is exactly what i mean. i dont imply anything else and i dont care if others see it differently. its their fault.

Of course there is always a part of everyone that cares what other people think, wether you like it or not.
But I’ve learned that I am much happier when I dress and act and live the way I want to instead of the way others tell me to. I have no time for haters in my life. If they don’t like me, I don’t really care.

They say that when you’re young, you care what everyone thinks of youy, when you’re middle aged, you (gradually) stop caring what everyone thinks of you, and when you’re old: you realize no one was thinking of you in the first place!