be a good wife and mother

please please please help me with any ideas and suggestions to become a better wife and mother

I’ve been a wife and mother for almost 3 years now..well..2 years as a mother and 3 years exactly tomorrow as a wife. And I thought I am already a good wife and mother, now, I’m not sure anymore..What is the definition of “good mother and wife” anyway.. i never knew being a wife and mother is such a hard job! i did not imagine my mother had this own dilemma.wow!now, I salute her for handling this role for more than 20 years.

I fucked up the wife thing the first time around, but still would like to be a good one someday….got the good mother thing going for me though…

I really want to be a great wife and mother. Not just be good, but great! I have a wonderful husband and step-daughter who I adore more than words can describe. I want to create that home I grew up in. Not perfect…but perfect for us.