I can count this as done. I don’t over analyze or jump to conclusions anymore. It was difficult at 1st, but now it is 2nd nature not to guess. 7 years ago
who I am close to. We where chatting one day and all of a sudden he got real quiet and I am quite sure that I heard him say “I love you.” I was kind of taken aback and I said, “what?” He replied, “nothing.” What is that all about? Can’t he just say it again? I really wasn’t too sure about his words he said it in a whisper! Argh! If I mean it I will say it…I won’t chicken out! is it that big of a deal for a guy to say “I love you?” 8 years ago
for me especially! I always seem to over analyze everything…it is a fault of mine. SOme say it is an asset, but I see it differently. I seem to “think outloud” for other people and I assume things that aren’t even said. Wish I could make this “chatter” stop… 8 years ago
I still jump to SOME conclusions, don’t get me wrong. But I’m certainly a much calmer, more trusting person than I was a few months back. 9 years ago
this is hard. being with somebody i trust is helping, tho i still find myself slipping back into jealousy and paranoia quite easily. oops! 9 years ago
To be honest, I think I am progressing with this goal. I’m less jealous and paranoid than I used to be, and I try hard to ask questions if something is bothering me, rather than just assuming what I’m thinking is the right thing.
I don’t think I’m quite there yet, but I’m definately working on it, and I feel a lot better for it :) 9 years ago