Joyfully & Easily Attract The Right People Into My Life

a dinner meeting with a local businesswoman who has a staffing/payroll service company and a former mortgage broker to discuss the possibility of forming a leadership coalition for entreprenuers here in the wilderness.

It was definitely an interesting idea. I was honored to be included in the core group. I hardly know either of these people and they thought of me.

When I looked at my Life List today this popped out!

How easy is this? Put it out into the Universe and voila!
It appears out of no where.

I’ve always found myself meeting incredible people, and really, people are just that. All too often I found myself pulled down by others, people who don’t dream or dismiss the beauty of imagination and even worse; people who try to prevent you from realizing the fruits of your own imagination. If the law of attraction is true, then this is about changing things within myself. So let it begin.

Believe and it will happen. I just finished writing my first book and decided to self publish, Im still working full time and needed an editor to help me with my book. A few months ago we had a new recruit and she studied linguistics and languages, and she edited my book for me:) So the right people are coming into my life…..and Im so grateful for that.

I asked one of my male friends some questions via email. He obliged me by answering the questions succinctly. Honestly, I have no idea how to read him. Sometimes he’s incredibly warm & friendly, and other times, distant. Although, he usually keeps his guard to some degree.

My therapist suggested I ask my friend to define our friendship better. At this point, I’m not all that ready to confront this, as there is so much on my plate. He’s a really nice guy, but I’m definitely not the woman yet I want to be to attract the man I want and there are just some traits he has that I don’t want.

Maybe he knew that I was having a rough week and just wanted to be a friend, to be supportive. I really don’t know, but he sat pretty darned close to me and of course, made sure to greet me. It does make me feel special, cared for and loved.

Later, while I was in the social room of our church, though he wasn’t talking to me, he stood fairly nearby, as if waiting for me to finish with the people I was. Since he couldn’t get my attention one way, he found a different way.

The resolution in my mind from last week was I was just going to enjoy his friendship at wherever he is with all his guarded stuff. I already made up my mind long ago that I was not pursuing any man, but I will give signals whether I am interested or not.

There’s a lot of work ahead for me in dealing with all this stuff I have on my plate. Right now, just with my ex’s stuff alone, I’m dealing with a lot of anger issues, and I’m sure to some extent in the deep recesses of my mind, I’m holding onto some unforgiveness.

I certainly don’t want to be a sad sack, but I can’t fake being happy when I’m not. I know the church at which I’ve been going to for over 6+ years is the church I’m supposed to be at. Can’t quite explain it, but it is.

I read an article last night about how a woman was getting to her core issues and it was truly amazing the tenacity she went through it with. I want to do similar, but find myself not wanting to. There seems to be resistance to tapping.

I’m inspired! ‘Doris who lives in God’s exquisite, miraculous sufficiency’ blew me away, truly the perfect way to accomplish a goal like this is to BE the goal.

I’m excited to learn this guy at my church has a great entreprenurial spirit, energetic and a real gogetter. He’s working for a startup technology company and is into marketing big time, which is an area that I know nothing about but intrigues me.

He also used to be a former stock broker. I’m really excited to get to know him better. And, I think I piqued his interest in that I know a lot about the stock market, used to be an engineer.

Our first impressions of each other were not too impressive, but I hope there can be a friendship that can be developed, and perhaps some business collaboration? I want to be energized here.

Allowing myself to be open to all sorts of opportunities. I’m not centered on any one person, but just allowing God to present to me all these opportunities and then having Him direct and guide as He sees fit on who, what, where, when, why, and how.

What a cool adventure this is going to be.

Okay, I’ve been praying that God would provide a way for the kids and I to go to the beach, to relax, unemcumbered by the cares of the world for a bit. A friend from my past came back in tonight. He invited us to the resort he works at, where he gets great discounts in FL. He says the winter time is a great time to come, so maybe the kids and I can spend a little bit of time there during the Christmas holiday?

We’ll see. It was great talking with him, and how I’ve missed our friendship.

Ultimately the things we are on the inside attract certain people to us. Though I have “seemingly” been an upbeat, positive person throughout my life on the outside, I have attracted some very seedy people, abusers, addicts, dishonest people. Why?

There were traits about me that magnetized these types of people to me. Maybe there was a part of me that wanted to repel these types from me, but in doing so, it actually pulled them more to me? I don’t know, just a supposition.

There has been a very needy part of me that needed something, and rather than finding strength in who God says I am, I sought different things, people, and thus, attracted people like Aaron & Henry and a host of very toxic men into my life, which has been very destructive.

The process of rooted out all those ugly parts and replacing them with healthy stuff has been a bit painful (to say the least) and very ugly. Cleaning out the “pipes” of all that gunk is yuck. However, the result is the good flow of good things can now run through. The bad stuff just passes right through.

This is the #1 trait that is sooo important to me. Without good integrity, I really don’t want dishonest, lying people in my life, or at least not my close friends or people that I would spend time with and be influenced by them. Even if they are like Donald Trump, it doesn’t matter. I do not want to have people who do not have good integrity as role models. Not saying Donald Trump is dishonest.

So, I must become a person of integrity. I thought that I was full of integrity, but as I look at my life, just this thing about my weight, that is an area I was not honest with.

Same thing with my finances. However, I’m becoming much more aware and dealing with things here over these past months. Facing truth has been challenging.

Anyway, as I learn to face the truth and do something about things, I want to make sure I’m constantly a person of integrity.

I’m always a bit hesitant at adding another goal to my list, but I feel this is an important one and will deal specifically with people and myself.

Originally when I thought about this goal, I was going to say to attract the right man, but in reality it’s not just the right man, but the right friends, the right business people, the right traders, the right everything.

In order for me to attract the right people, I must be the right person. If I have unhealthy behaviors like codependency or whatever, that will attract abusive and other unhealthy behaviorial type people.

For this goal, I’d really like inputs from others and to explore what this really means.