stop blushing

Normally, I won’t blush. But then I realize I’m not blushing, and might blush at any time, which then makes me nervous and blush. The fact that I’m blushing makes me even more nervous which makes me even more red.

AAHHH

I turn completely red whenever I have to present or give a speech in class. I want to get over this!

It started about last year, I think due to my self esteem getting lower and lower.
It sucks because I don’t even have to be embarrassed…I’ll still blush, which THEN makes me embarrassed.
It’s horrible, it can happen anytime, anywhere with anyone.

Hope I can cross this off one day :)

My blushing seems to be linked to my anxiety disorder. I started on Zoloft a few weeks ago and it seems to decrease the amount of blood flow to my face, so is definately helping so far. I don’t want to get to excited yet though. Wait a while before I cross this one off my list. Fingers crossed. :)

I blush too much when im not even embarrased. Its soul destroying as I feel like nothing

I was searching blushing to find more info on it and if there are any treatments, and I came across a product called Eredicane. Go to http://www.eredicane.com/index.html for more info on it. It seems pretty legit and I am thinking about ordering some. Does anyone think it would be a waste of money? This is so debilitating I’m desperate.

Hi All

Well, i too have the dreaded blushing problem.

I have had it for years. I dread going into the shops, meeting new people and doing presentations.

I went to a hypnotist the other day, and its not exactly what i thought it was going to be like. I just assumed they put you under, did something in your head and you were cured for ever. Not quit.

The thing that i have realised is that we have to start loving ourselves and accepting the fact that all humans are equal. So what if we blush, yes it sucks but what is the worst that can happen. Can they eat us? No, Is the world going to end because we blush? No. You see, nothing can happen to us. The more we accept this the better we will start becoming.
The hypnotist really just talks to you and tries to make a bad situation into a good one. For eg: You are going to a meeting, you like the way you feel and look, you look in the mirror and say “i love making new friends” you go to the meeting and enter the boardroom with 30 people in it. You feel yourself feel calm, with an even coloured skin (no blushing), no sweaty palms etc. You smile at everyone and do your presentation. Feeling relaxed and confident.
There, thats it.

So for everyone out there – think positive thoughts only, stop saying i blush all the time, i cant do this, i cant do that. And maybe go and watch the secret. The trick is to really believe you are confident and see yourself in that situation.

It’s getting worse and worse. Now I blush because my cute boss is 50 feet away and looking somewhat in my direction. Crap. CRAP!

one aspect of my life that use to make me blush no longer does.
i have become so much more comfortable that i rarely blush at this time anymore. it is so amazingly awesome

hi everyone! i cant actually express how happy i am to hear stories that are IDENTICAL to mine! i thought i was the only one….no one else understands. recently its got really bad, and i think it may be related to the fact that three people i know have died so far this year, and my dad has just been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. i think that these emotional triggers may have worsened it. also, next week i have work experience at a dance studio and will have to teach a whole class someting and i am so dreading it. i know i will stand there infront of the mirrors going bright red while everyone laughs or questions it. AND i have to deliver a speech infront of my class (which okay, everyone has to do, but no one else blushes!) AND i have to sing a solo infront of my performing arts class. i need serious help and im thinking of hypnosis, but i cant sort it out within two weeks!! i dont just go a little bit pink on my cheeks….my whole face lights up like a fire my forehead, my nose, my cheeks, and i feel the back of my neck burning too! i am so low in self confidence that it is ruining my life and i really want to be a dancer. the thing is, i usually go red in rehearsals and classes infront of everyone, but when i go on the stage and start dancing fully out, i dont go red at all! its like its because i actually have confidence in my self that i am an excellent dancer, and i will be able to do everything good and impress the audience. it is the ONLY time i have true ego and self-esteem and i love it, it is the best feeling in the world, and i sit and cry thinking about how good it feels and how my life would be if i wasnt affected by this horrible thing. it sounds pathetic, but really blushing is a total life ruiner and nobody else understands. i blush when, someone compliments me, there is an awkward situation, i feel a rush of emotion, i do something stupid like tell a joke, get something right and someone congratulates me, and even if i think about blushing, i look in the mirror…and uhoh! im bright bloody red!! i am going to challenge myself though, and purposely put myself in uncomfortable situations where i would normally find my face and neck tingling, and think about how cool it owuld be not to blush and FORCE myself not to do it. i would take a drastic measure, but i dont have enough time to even take a week away from dance, and i dont believe in using drugs that could harm your body even though blushing is my BIGGEST fear and i would sell my soul to the devil to get ris of my little problem. i want to be confident,i want a life, i want to be a dancer, but i cant, all because i blush.