I guess this goal will eternally be on my list, to remind me every day to keep the happiness i have found in my heart with me always…
I think what really stops us from being happy is always us…
this i learned the hard way, but i am so happy i have :)
We often depend on external factors to decide for us if we are “allowed” to be happy or not, which is not easy to ignore…
Or we decide that this or that would make us happy…
Or we think that we should fit a certain mold, be like others are, have what others have…
Like you can’t be happy unless you fit into what other people think is the formula for happiness…
Or if you don’t buy this or go there, you have no “right” to be this happy, you haven’t “made it”...
The illusions we live in… what the hell, time to WAKE UP!
I now know i have everything i need, i’m not waiting for anything, i don’t need anything nor want anything anymore to be the deciding factor for my to be happy or not…
I found out that i was looking in the wrong places when i should have been looking inside myself, working on finding what makes me happy, simply… self-improvement is quite a love affair i guess.
Being happy, its just a choice.
Learning to smile more, learning to fill your heart with happiness, and just learning to let go… valuable lessons i acquired last year amidst quite a heap of hardships.
Surely, there will always be problems, cruelty, heartless people,sorrows, hardships, anger, past wounds…
There’s enough to cry about, so why waste time?
Why not be happy? Now. Right Now.
I know that compared to most people i know, i’ve been through a lot, though each person has their own share of suffering, to compare is silly, journeys differ.
To you, dear anonymous reader, please::
I wish you would start being happy right now.
For absolutely no reason except that if you counted out your blessings, you wouldn’t be reading this, you’d be jumping with joy…
Be happy!
Kindness given is kindness received, your happiness will find itself back to me like i now send out to you :)
Peace.