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How to have an orgasm from intercourse
How I did it: How did I do it, years of trying, and then eventually not trying, Once I stopped obsessing it was much better. And drugs don't hurt lol. What surprised me though was the fact that I'd only been going out with the lad for a week. I guess it's just how comfortable you are, which I guess after the 3 years I've been "sexually active" was bound to happen.
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boyfriend made me cum recently by fingering me while sucking nipples. Was very nice, but I ultimately came from fantasizing…plus, I didnt cum while he was inside me.
Maybe next time.
I think im going to get a dildo and masturbate with that…it should help, I think, because if I can get used to cumming with a similar “item”, I might be able to with the real thing.
Ill stay away from vibrators though, because that is NOT like the real thing.
I cant orgasm during sex with my guy. It just doesnt happen and it’s frustrating for the both of us because he’s very into getting the girl off. I have never before cum during sex and dont know what i’m doing wrong/not doing…
any help would be appreciated.
I’m glad because each time I have sex with my boyfriend I feel better and better. When I first began having sex, I felt barely anything at all. But the thing is that my mind isnt able to get in a really fully “horny” state (the way I feel when I masturbate to porn) while im having sex with him. I try to think sexy thoughts, but it just doesnt work. Also, during sex, touching my clit is NOT the same as when im just masturbating…I guess because of the other sensations down there it just doesnt have the same strong effect that it has when im all alone… I can cum while alone touching my clit only (and fantasizing), but while were having sex, no.
Any comments are appreciated!
I couldn’t have an orgasm for my first 6 years after I became sexually active. But when I figured out what I and he was doing wrong I then was able to have an orgasm every single time providing I did certain things and so did he. I wrote a little pamphlet on it – it’s short but it’s way too long to write here. You can check it out at climaxhelp.com. Good Luck – don’t let anyone tell you women just weren’t built that way – that’s crap!
Then you slowly learn how to make this happen whilst making love.
I have found that sex has been hurting me. Maybe this is because I have been having next to never. At least that’s my boyfriend’s theory. I’ve tried all different types of lubricants, but I still feel as if something is “rubbing the wrong way” so to speak. Maybe I should go to the doctor.
Glad to see someone else here… and that there are many other similar goals. How to start? Maybe not here since I’m so stressed I don’t even want to have sex. But if anyone wants to share and talk about this, I’m open. Anyone else ever fake? Tell your lover about it? How did that turn out?





