Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, and he has told me he’s loved me, but i wanna do somthing, just one little thing that really will want me. I haven’t quite figured that out yet..
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well the following steps is how it works, beleave me.
when i meet a guy, i always get a second call.
all i have to do is..
use a beautiful smile.
- be yourself.
- always look your best (( sugesting makeup nice clothes, nice straight or curly hair))
- always have a nice scent.
- be funny, never say anything stupid, well it’s alright to but just laugh and say ” that wasn’t that funny”
- be nice, don’t be rude..well you czn just not mean mean.
when he says stuff funny (or not so funny) still laugh and carry on conversatoin.
- hug him
- don’t take so far, if he leans in for a kiss, kiss back.
- don’t ever blow him off.
- talk to him as much as possible, well whenever he wants to talk.
- be sweet.
- be myserious, but let him in a little
- don’t be afraid to cry, most guys like it because you can lean on them.
with these simple steps..you’ll have him wrapped around your finger.
please comment back and tell me how it works out.
I’m going out with him. Boyfriend and girlfriend.But he doesnt love me.
Its not love. Its ’ i quite like you’
i have been hanging out with this guy for a while now and he says he feels something for me but he just doesnt want a relationship right now. what am i suppossed to do???
Do you want a guy to be crazy about you, the way you are about him? While you can’t make someone feel a certain way, you can definitely put your best foot forward and give his feelings a chance to develop. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
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Like yourself. Whether you’re goofy, silly, crazy, quirky, smart, reserved, or whatever, how can you expect a guy to like you if you don’t like yourself? You’ve got to show this person how awesome you are, but first you need to know how awesome you are. Build up your self confidence. Now, this doesn’t mean you have to be loud, boisterous, arrogant, chatty, or forward. It just means getting to a place where you’re comfortable in your own skin. You can be secure, sweet and humble all at the same time. Guys like confident, interesting girls who have their own lives. The only guys who like insecure girls are the ones who are insecure themselves. But who wants to be with a guy who wants a girl to feel bad about herself? That’s not healthy, and you deserve better.
Get his attention. He can’t fancy you if he doesn’t know you exist. If you haven’t caught his eye yet, then get him to notice you. You’ve got to walk before you run, right? Say “Hi”. Say “Good-bye”. Wave. When he reciprocates, is when you know he notices you. Introduce yourself somehow and make conversation. Take an interest in who he is-what he likes, where he’s coming from, where he wants to go-and show him who you are, too. While some guys don’t like to talk that much, it’s nearly impossible for someone to like you if he doesn’t get to know you—unless he “likes” you for all the wrong reasons.
Crack a joke. Having a good sense of humor makes everything better. That doesn’t mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Express your sense of humor in your own way. Some people are witty and sarcastic, others can tell hilarious stories, and many people just do quirky things and poke fun at themselves. No matter what tickles your sense of humor, it’s much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while. If you don’t find something to laugh about together, then maybe you’ll discover that you don’t like him after all!
Do things together. If he loves rock-climbing, ask him if he can show you how, and make a good-faith effort to see why he’s so into it. Have an open mind. Find out what you have in common, and include him in your world. If you love a certain kind of music, ask him if he’s ever listened to a particular artist and offer to play a CD for him. Finding activities that you can enjoy together can really lay down a bond and further his appreciation of you.
Have patience. These things take time. You can’t force someone to like you, and trying to hurry things up can ruin the courtship altogether. Give him some space and don’t be obsessive. Let things progress at a natural pace, or fade out of natural causes. Eventually he’ll tell you one way or another whether or not he’s interested in reciprocating your affection. And if he’s not, don’t hang around him like a lost puppy. Sometimes you might be incompatible in ways that you don’t see, and sometimes a guy just isn’t ready for a long term relationship. Don’t take rejection too personally. It happens. Not everyone in the world is going to like you. Move on! There are other fish in the sea and if you followed the first step, you know that you’re a good catch.
Love is such a weird thing.
I cant force someone to love me.
I cant give someone a love potion and steal their heart with him.
And i would never do that because then he wouldnt raelly be mine.
I want to be comfortable around him, thats the only way i can be myself around him then he will love me for myself.
I should stop being so scared and just bloody live my life!
I love him so much.
Who knows why.
I think its the kindness.
The smiles or the looks we give each other.
His rebellious style.
yer whatever.
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I am a 25 year old single mom who has been dating a guy to whom i believe may be my soul mate.
He is an entrepenuer and works overtime with his company, sometimes i feel unwanted or just not on the same page as feelings are concerned. He was with his ex for 5 years and then single for 3 years after that. I am concerned either she has ruined his chances of ever loving passionately with me, or he just doesnt want to go down the same road i want to.
my daughter is 4 turning 5 in 4 months and she absolutely loves him and he her. I want my daughter to have a sibling close in age but im not sure if he is ready for a commitment like marriage or children of his own.
HELP ME PICK HIS BRAIN AND FIND OUT OF I AM JUST WASTING BOTH OUR TIME
OK, there’s someone I really really like. He know I like him too, and he likes me back (he had an erection without me even touching him). Problem is, he’s more than old enough to be my dad (he’s nearly 30 years older), and had kids, but is not married. How on earth should I approach someone like this?
I don’t need him anymore.
He didn’t know what he was losing when he gave up on me, and now it’s too late.
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