become independant

im so dependant on my mother and boyfriend. my mother struggles to make ends meet and my boyfried busses his ass to work and when i had a job i would not save i would always blow my money on food and clothes and things i dont need. i havent saved a penny cuz im always like oh my mom is going to give me baq the money or my boyfriend. well now i quit my job and i have a car to pay off for. my boyfriend broke up wid me cuz he said that im not strong and my mother is on my back about getting a job. i really dont want to depend on no1 . i just want to get my life together and be able to support myself . i need to grow up

I am 21 in August and i feel it is time for me to to move on from my childhood and make my own strides in the world. I quit university 18 months ago as i felt unhappy in all aspects of my life. My family life was pretty dreadful and I used university as a break from this deriving little pleasure from the experience. Being the youngest of 4 brothers i have always acted dependantly and have struggled to find any direction in my life. After receiving therapy and reading many books I now understand that my future is my own and that i can find fulfilment in my life. For the last few months i have been itching for a change but am unsure as to what to do next.
looking to meet like minded people who are ready to take on the world! :D

I guess this is more about feeling better about myself, knowing I don’t have to rely on anyone for what I need or want.

I’ve been supported by my family or ex-lover. I never wanted this for myself, but didn’t know how to shake it off. Finally, I come back home and start to form into the person I’ve wanted to be, before I was held back. I’m almost there.

i am done relying on men to make me feel complete!

I don’t have a proble being dependant on my boyfriend. He helps me take care of our son, he works I work and go to school. Later I’ll work and he will go to school. So I guess I didn’t me independant of him but rather self sufficiant I guess. I think the two might be diffrent things.

I was trying to file my taxes online using e-file and I ended up filling out the 1040 ez instead of the 1040 I can’t figure out how to change the form and they won’t let me start over damn it. I had to call my Mom. I was trying to do it myself and now I feel stupid. I just wanted to do my taxes by myself, I’m almost 28 and I screwed it up. I am sitting a the computer crying. All I could think to do was e-mail the customer service department and ask how to change the form. I can’t even file my taxes right.

...it’s hard to explain.

Emotionally, financially, physically. You get the idea.

I love my boyfriend too but im driving him crazy. We have the worst fights because Im either too clingy or too dependant. I dont blame him and I feel horrible for making him feel suffocated. I just want to be able to rely on myself more so things can work out.