i mean…i’ll never be done doing this…but i tell people whenever i feel inclined (which is often) that i think they are gorgeous. there are an insane number of beautiful people in the world, and they ought to know it. 2 years ago
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i often do it to everyone..eventhough they didn’t return the favor..but its still 100% cool. i myself feel better when someone give a positive compliment at me..it makes me feel lighter and more persistent to go along with the great flow of the worlds evolution. and I wanted to do the same to them too….i knew that it’ll affect their way of thinking too..make them beautiful is like alleviating their minor suffering. 4 years ago
I think this would be tough. But i feel simply smiling at a person genuinely or complementing them can itself make them feel good about themselves. I think I should learn to smile at others even when i am sad.
The other thing could be looking at the good things/ qualities in others. I tend to not like someone because i don’t like something about them. I should probably appreciate them for their qualities. 5 years ago
What actually would make this goal complete, but i’m to my 43 goal limit and have to make room for more so i’m going to mark this as done, even though i want to continue to do this. 5 years ago
I’m really not sure how to go about doing this and then knowing it has been achieved. Like you can’t say something to build someone up and be like, “hey, do you feel beautiful now?”
Me: Hey what’s up?
Beautiful Feeler: Nothing.
Me: You are so beautiful! Kbye!
There are so many people that don’t realize how beautiful they truly are but to just put it so simply seems as if it would limit the expression. I don’t know how to know if I have done this. Maybe I should just start telling everyone that I think is beautiful that they are beautiful… or maybe that would end up being really weird. I DON’T KNOW!
Looking at it from a different point of view, if someone approached me the way I have previously mentioned approaching others, that would make me feel really nice inside. I suppose I am just not creeped out easily then? I DON’T KNOW ANYTHING! 5 years ago
here’s my thought… compliment someone every time you feel sad, lonely, ugly etc… that way they smile and in turn you do as well! :) plus it will get your mind off of your worry and onto making life a little bit brighter! 5 years ago
I don’t really know how to do this.
Will spend some time contemplating various methods of beautifying others.
There’s always, “Hey! You’re beautiful!”
That might come across a littttle creepy and insincere.
The end. 5 years ago
People make you laugh, cry, sad, happy, and all you can do.. all alone.. we are just a spec !
So, if we are so much influenced by the people, so, lets follow the old saying – what you do to others, comes back to you !
So, why not cheer up people, make their lives better and create a better world for others and ourselves !
- Awal Eesh Singh ( http://www.awal.in ) 6 years ago
anyway, every time i say to my friends:”you are beautiful, they are really happy to hear that, and smile back at me, i like that pure smile, it makes the world around us more beautiful, so keep doing it. 6 years ago
I think I’ve done it, but I don’t think you can ever be positive, just keep on telling people they are beautiful, and don’t give up on them. 6 years ago
i think i did. i hope i did, because she really is, it’s too bad she doesn’t think so. i wish she saw herself the way i do, because i know the rest of the world does too . . . 6 years ago
for the most part, i don’t find alcohol to be benificial to the psyche…however in the right quantities i always feel way more confident about telling people how gorgeous they are…if they’ve also had a bit to drink, they seem to be way more likely to respond positively, smiling, eyes sparkling
this happened last night when one of the most luminous females i’ve seen in a long time stepped into the room…i told her to her face that she was gorgeous and she actually took the compliment!!!! 7 years ago
ahhh! my eye!!!
it’s amazing what mindset does. i read the magician’s nephew not too long ago, and C.S. Lewis makes a huge point that those with closed minds close themselves off to radiant beauty. beauty that evokes unconditional love…too often are we shallow.
“oh GOD look at her THIGHS! get off the burgers, fatty!”
nevermind that she had cobalt blue eyes that spoke of midnights near waves.
the rush of wind,
the poetry that makes her life bearable.
“ugh, why is he WEARING that?? he’s never going to get laid!” nevermind that those clothes cloak a body that dances, loves and aches. nevermind his skin smells like honey and spices. nevermind he’s a sculptor who worships clay with his hands.
i wonder sometimes if people fear finding beauty in others. is it a pride thing? self esteem? i always feel more comfortable in my own skin when i see the glow of others shine through.
we are beautiful by default. it’s only psychological tactics from who knows where or what that prevent us from realizing this. 7 years ago
people rarely realize their own beauty, their own divinity. every person on this planet is made of light. it is not an exaggeration to say that there is beauty in all of us. it’d be nice to help people who don’t realize this, know it for certain. 7 years ago