since i have been in high school (3 1/2 years)I have been totally lonely.I never have anyone to talk to and have no brothers and sisters so I’m an onlky child.The only time I had made firend and was going to a nice high school my mom made me move AGAIN and now I am going to a high school with lots of segragation,gang activity, and many of the girl are quite rude to me, so I keep to myself I hope to one day make friends
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feel gooooood.
 "Everyone wants to be accepted and loved by others, and to achieve that, all we have to do is be kind to others!"
How I did it: I joined lots of sports teams at my high school and found out that I was good at some of them! Then, I started talking to different people at practice. They thought I was stuck up because I'm shy and normally don't talk to people, but they liked me once I came out of my shell and I got to know them better. After we'd talked for a while, I started inviting friends over, having parties, and hanging out. Lessons & tips: Be nice! Not overly nice, but offer up an occasional compliment. Encourage people when they're struggling. Offer a helping hand. They'll return the favor, and you may gain a friend in the process. Resources: "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
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