Joel Bryan Juliano *hacking*, reading, learning
Love is not selfish.
Love is not about you,
it’s not about how would they make you feel good.
It’s about being selfless,
it’s about freeing someone and allowing them to make decisions
that would make them happy.
It’s about not being jealous when they are cheating on you.
It’s about allowing them to make those secret calls to someone.
It’s about not uninstalling those Instant Messengers in their laptops to communicate to someone secretly.
It’s about approving theirs that you don’t approve.
It’s about not owning them, and forgetting any belief that you own anyone.
It’s about believing and realizing that they have their own life,
and you don’t control any of it.
It’s about making them feel happy, no matter how painful it is for you.
True love is painful and hard to learn, but it’s worth it.
