accept my dads girlfriend

At first I liked her, then disliked her, and now it’s just plain on and off… Her and her daughter are moving into dad’s now. It gets me really upset. I want to accept her but I can’t.

Dad’s girlfriend is coming to our home with her daughter to meet me and my brother. She’s gonna be staying with us for a whole month and dad expects me to hang out with the daughter. My brother wants both of them to fall off the face of the earth, and personally, so do I. I’m thinking about not working this summer so I can take my brother away from them both.

My dad’s been dating her for 7 years (still not married). They live in her house. Every time I go there I clean. “She’s my little helper.” “She’s my little duster, dish washer, clothes folder, drawer organizer, tub scrubber, etc.” I know I don’t argue, but it’s because it doesn’t matter what I say. I’m wrong. She’s right. She’s the adult. When there’s company over and not enough chairs, I get to sit on the floor in another room. She gives me the sex talk (NOT her place). Interrogates me on every aspect. Don’t get me wrong, she can be kool every once in a while. But it’s getting out of hand.

She’s slowly ruining mine and my brothers life. Dad spends every moment possible on her and not us. I HATE her. I’ll keep it on here cause I need to do it. But se’s not worth it. If she had a decent personality or if she was sweet it’d be different ut she’s a wench and it’s not so she’s setting herself up for some major upsets.

Thank god she’s not my stepmother…yet. If I have anything to do with it she won’t be. She’s absolutley awful and quite frankly I hope she rots in hell but if I could get used to the fact that my dad has another woman in her life it might make my life a whole lot easier.