stop being obsessive

I always have. Once I get it in my mind that I like someone, nothing can stop me from checking his facebook every time I get online and checking out his pictures. It’s a gross, disturbing habit and I need to stop because it just makes me feel depressed when I finally come to my senses and realize that this guy doesn’t even know me. My plan is to compliment myself and reassure myself that there is a boy out there that will like me for who I am and every boy that I like may not like me back, that’s life. I need to focus more on my friends and perhaps one day a guy will come about that is worth my time, if not I’ll have the support of those friends to help me through.

I just need to be a “clean soul” no affliction and such…

I’m doing this again, because i’ve become terribly obsessive again. I don’t know where to let out my frusteration, I try to let it out on other ppl, but I can’t help it, I always have to go crazy on the ones I love.

i’m still an obsessive person, i just get obsessed with people and things. but for now i’m not being rediculous like the way I was.

I need to stop being so obsessed over a guy im not even going out with. I’m terrible. I get so angry, confused, and heart-broken over nothing. It’s crazy. Starting today i’m going to stop obsessing over him, stop sending him crazy long emails, and looking through his messages, stop trying to send him text messages 10 times a day without any response, and stop calling him at 4am trying to wake him up. So this is my plan, dont try to contact him for a week. And stop looking through his messages trying to see if he’s “cheating” on me for a month sheesh. Being this obsessive has only put me through alot of emotional stress and has made me act irrational, and possibly has made me ruin a great relationship. I’m going to love him no matter what, so I need to stop being obsessed with the idea that he might be flirting with other girls.

I love my boyfriend of almost 3 years. He is so sweet to me. Sometimes I wish I didn’t love him this much because there are nights when I hold the phone, waiting for call or get angry or stressed when his family’s line is busy. Also, I want to talk to him every night, I love hearing his voice and talking to him. He says he does too but that it’s not that big of a deal if we don’t always talk. To me it is…how can I stop being like this and just be like him…get on with life and think about other things instead of him? He says he loves it and finds it cute that I’m like this but I know that this is ridiculous and should stop. But how? Is it stupid?

i want to and really need to do this

I notice that when i’m busy i don’t have time to obsess about the little things and life is so much calmer