have a healthy, intimate relationship

What is a healthy intimate relationship?
How do I have one???

whenever I call him…note to self..he doesn’t call me.

But he still cares enough to return my call…what does that mean in a perfect world or the imperfect one that we live in?

stopped by unexpectedly with flowers from his yard. He knows I love yellow roses so he brought some for me to enjoy. He also wanted to check on my wrist.

My friend said she thought he wants to get back together. He didn’t say anything about that. He was just very upbeat about my business and hoped things were going well for me.

It was good to see him.

a woman over 40 is more likely to get hit by lightening then to get married again. I don’t think this is true. I know alot of women who have found new loves in later years.

Do I want to get married again? Sometimes. Being single isn’t that interesting when you are a social butterfly like me in a world of couples.

The hardest part is finding someone who is compatible because friendship is the basis of a relationship at this age.

They also say love comes along when we aren’t looking for it…maybe that’s the key.

Six months tops if there is a glimmer of a future together. Next time I meet someone I will be honest with myself and them from the beginning. We can’t change others and my live and let live philosophy is good for friendships and love…if you have things in common to offset the differences day to day.

It’s not hard to let go of someone who really likes you
only on their terms…relationships are not a one-way street.

My love of independence is waning today. My thoughts are shifting. I no longer feel that my emotional well being depends on total freedom. I really want sincerity and sharing with someone special.

Having gone through a period of uncertainty in terms of love, now I want a secure, stable relationship. I truly am ready to commit to a lasting love.

Knowing my history that’s scary! ;)

comes to mind I remember my last relationship that actually lasted 10 years off and on. Nothing would make me happier than to go back in time and make that relationship work.

Of course, I am no doubt romanticizing the whole thing. If it were good we’d still be together.

Have to admit he was my best friend for a very long time.
I do miss him.

I like personal freedom so my “live and let live” attitude in life is very difficult for others to understand in reality.

What attracts guys to me is what they want to change right away.

Someday I will find someone who accepts me for who I am. ;)

Your Lovescope – Week of August 25, 2008
Look into the future and consider what you want your romantic life to look like a year from now. Then break it down to figure out what small step you need to take now in order to make this dream come true. This Friday night the Moon disappears from the sky and gives you the opportunity to set a new trend in place. This is your magical opportunity to make a wish to the cosmos. Keep in mind that the new intentions you set for you and your romantic partner will have a strong effect on the following four weeks. Make sure that the short-term intention you set will contribute toward the long-term goal of your dreams. Overall, Saturday and Sunday are the strongest days of the week for you, times when your emotions are grounded and you’ll enjoy a wonderfully romantic and tender rapport with the one you love. If you’re single, this is the perfect weekend to find someone new.

of falling in love with a silver haired, blue-eyed Rancher/Builder who is widowed, has grown children, grand children and loves family, travel, life and me…

nice dream. ;)