My mom and I argue every day. About little things. Like for instance, I lost four important things this year:
A set of keys
An 8$ gift card
My mom’s CREDIT CARD
and my cell phone (that was recovered yesterday. Thank God.)
Before I found my cell phone, when I was searching for it, she said it was ridiculous that I lost all of those things (the keys, the credit card, etc) . But I didn’t even lose them all at once. It was for months at a time. Well, maybe the time barrier doesn’t matter. I still lost them. Anyway, she has said “It’s ridiculous that you lost all those things” to me a million times. So I fussed and said I got the picture. Then, she said I “lost” my journal too. I didn’t lose my journal! My ex-friend, “Charlotte” stole it for sure. I told my mom that a gazillion times, but it seems no matter how many times I tell her, she still believes that I lost it. When Charlotte is a total thief. I left my journal under my pillow the last day I saw it, and that day Charlotte came to spend the night at my house. She slept in my bed and two weeks later (I didn’t think about the journal for two weeks), I found it GONE. Charlotte was fired from her volunteer job because she was suspected of stealing money from an employee there. I found money missing from my purse before, after I STUPIDLY left Charlotte alone in my bedroom. I caught her fumbling through my purse when she thought I didn’t see her. I caught her looking through my back pack at school. She stole gum from a store..It was numerous things. I can go on and on. But anyway, It hurt my feelings to know that my mom believes a thief over her own daughter. She doesn’t see why my Charlotte would want to steal my journal. Umm…to look at all my private thoughts…duh. Anyway, back on topic. we starting arguing about my journal, how I didn’t lose it, Charlotte stole it, blah blah blah…
Also, we argue every day about how I have to bring things to her room and prepare her dinner. I argue that sometimes she can do that stuff…but maybe I shouldn’t debate that. It’s better than paying rent!! -
Yeah, we argue every about little things like that and I want to put an end to it.
But I’m trying to be better. I love my mom and we have the greatest bond, but you know small things like the stuff I just mentioned.
