If someone is truly “after you” i think it is fine to perform a succession of pranks on them that are non harmful. you are giving them a taste of their own medicine without actually hurting them. It will make you laugh and maybe even them too. It’s like saying “hey, this is juvenile and you are not making me upset…. you are making me laugh. This is stupid right?” When they figure out that not only do you have a better sense of humor, but you are also more witty…it will ruin their sense of satisfaction. Alas…they have not ruined you!Get a laugh at their expense!
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I want to take revenge on a fake friend… she has told so many lies that I can’t remember them all… Just really want her to feel pain and hurt… Then how to hurt her the most??? I want her to hurt for a long long long time… Well have done some but that’s not enough… Just want to break her so she want understand what hit her. Make she regret ever being alive
Revenge is fine, if you’re willing to admit yourself that you’re not over your issue. And then what are you doing, but succumbing to your own emotions?
I’m giving this up and getting a new goal: forgive those hardest to forgive.
I was framed once, and suffered a lot throughout my trials. It’s like it was my character put on trial, and I had to defend the very fabric of my being to the courtroom, and as word got out, to my friends, my family. I got off relatively easy, but I never got a chance to appeal my case, which I believe would render a different result if I were able to display evidence I have yielding contrary results. Worst of all, the person I was defending myself against was a former best friend, years after we broke contact, and I joined the military. The night the judge made her decision, I got a tattoo on my chest which described my feeling in the betrayal of my life: Et tu, Brute?
So, yeah, I have reason to seek revenge. Somebody, for several years of my life, tried to ruin me. They spread rumors, forced me to build back my character, and even tried to get me kicked out of the military once.
The reason was petty: she loved me and I left her to serve the country. Her vindictiveness came from nowhere, and I’ve reasoned that she might have serious issues that I triggered when I abandoned her.
There’s no reason for me to seek revenge other than to make myself happy—and even that will only be short-lived. What then? I’ve caused pain to another person. Great. How long will I be happy, and might that only further inspire her to more creative means of destroying me? I’ve decided, as hard as it is, and as deep as the scars from those years are ingrained in me, I will try to get over the issue and forgive her.
What is it Gandhi says, that an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind? Yeah, I think it will show more of my strength to move on than delve on my past.
I want sweet revenge. Getting even with a bitch ruining my life. Wanna make her life hell. I will kill to climb up the social ladder.
Girl world is a scary place.
Forgiveness and “living well” are better than revenge right?
Sadly, from my experience, no. I have many enemies, and I found that whilst living well, or forgiving them does piss them off, it still leaves you feeling miserable deep down, knowing that whatever they did to you, you just sat back and accepted. I had a friend who used to constantly talk about me behind my back, and even though I was smarter than him, better looking, stronger, and better with girls, he would constantly try to bring me down. I lived well, and it pissed him off, but he continued to try to mess my life up. Then one day, I simply walked over to him and slammed my fist into his nose. He fell to the ground, and the feeling of satisfaction, power and pride was immense. Since then, he has never talked badly about me, or anyone else. I think it made him a better person.
Now, I have guys that hit on my girlfriend, one by one, I track them down and get my revenge, and beleive me it makes me feel great, i mean really great.
Friends came to me asking for revenge on other guys that hit on their girlfriend, and soon we had a little group that we simply called The Black Fang Initiative.
We have since gotten revenge on every single guy that has ever wronged us, including abusive stepfathers, ex-boyfriends, guys that hit on our girlfriends, and general bullies.
One by one they have felt the power of the Fang. So we decided we needed to spread the vengeance. Black Fang recently went online, and you can find us at www.myspace.com/blackfanginitiative
You must have a Myspace account.
From there everything about Black Fang is explained, and there is a link to the Black Fang forums.
If you disagree with Black Fang in anyway, keep it to yourself, we do not want to hear it.
Draco






